The wedding ceremony will be held at Calvary Lutheran Church. The address is: 605 Douglas St, Alexandria, MN 56308

The wedding reception will be held at Tom and Melissa's home on Government Point. The address is: 3135 Van Ave NE Alexandria, MN 56308

For our guests staying at Arrowwood Resort, we ask that you take the provided shuttle. The shuttle will pick you up at the resort, bring you to the Church, take you from the Church to the reception, and then will return you to the resort at the end of the night.

For our local guests and guests not staying at Arrowwood, yes, there will be limited parking available at Government Point. We ask that you please ride together and share cars with family/friends to limit the amount of cars that will be parked at the reception.

While we adore your little ones, we kindly ask that our wedding be an adults-only celebration, with the exception of our flower girls and ring bearers. This allows us to stay within our preferred guest count and create the intimate atmosphere we’ve envisioned. We so appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate with you!

Yes! Since we are having a Friday wedding, we are planning on a Saturday Lake Day (weather permitting)! For those that want to participate, bring your boats, pontoons, and Jet Skis and join us on the Lake! Information for where to rent a boat is located in the "things to do" section of the site.

We want everyone to feel their best while celebrating with us! Our wedding is Black Tie Optional, meaning you’re welcome to dress to traditional black-tie standards or as close to it as possible. Guidelines to keep in mind: - For Men: A tuxedo or dark suit with a tie is preferred. Ties are encouraged! - For Women: A formal gown, cocktail dress, or elegant evening attire is perfect. - No jeans, no hats. We can’t wait to celebrate with you in style!