If you are able to RSVP as soon as you receive your formal invitation, that would be extremely helpful! We ask that you RSVP by October 17th, 2025. After that, any unanswered invites will automatically be marked as "not attending". We will miss celebrating with you, but it is imperative we provide our vendors with a final guest count within the time they have given us. Thank you for understanding!

In November, the weather in Escondido and Fallbrook is generally mild and pleasant. Average temperatures typically range from the mid-50s°F (around 13°C) in the early mornings and evenings to the mid-70s°F (around 24°C) during the daytime.

Our cocktail hour is the only event held on an outdoor patio. Both our ceremony and reception will be held indoors.

We would love to see our friends and family dressed up with us! Attire is strictly formal (a suit or tuxedo, and/or a formal evening gown or cocktail dress). Be prepared for changing temperatures during the day and evening. Don’t forget to bring layers!

We would love to keep our wedding as intimate as possible. If you received a plus one, it will be listed on your invitation and will appear under your name when you RSVP through the website. Only the guests formally invited on your wedding invitation will be accommodated. We appreciate you understanding.

While we absolutely love your little ones, we’ve invited only those in our wedding party and a few immediate family members who have children. We hope you understand, and we encourage you to take this opportunity for a fun date night!

Our wedding day is on a weekday: FRIDAY! We recommend checking traffic updates before you leave and planning your route ahead of time. If possible, consider arriving at least 30 minutes early to avoid any last-minute stress. Our ceremony begins strictly at 1:00PM. Please arrive no later than 15 minutes before the ceremony to allow time to park and find a seat. If you are staying near our reception venue, please be mindful that the church is a 25-30 minute drive away (19.3 miles from church to venue).

YES!! Open bar will be available throughout the reception. We want you to have the best time, so the drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you! We ask that all guests please drink responsibly and do not drive if you plan on drinking. Please make arrangements for a safe ride home. *** All guests must have an ID on them for the bar. Any guest without ID regardless of age will not be allowed to order alcohol. ***

If you have any questions other than what we have listed here, please feel free to reach out to Justine or Adrian by text, call, Facebook or email us at jcan.25@yahoo.com