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Unfortunately the invite list was set in advance, so unless your invitation specified otherwise, plus ones are not allowed.

While we'd love to celebrate with everyone, this is a 18+ event.

We recommend that you stay local to the Charlottesville area. There are a list of hotels in the 'Travel' section of this website to choose from.

Shuttle buses will be provided, leaving from the Doyle Hotel at 4:30 PM on wedding day. Buses will be returning to the Doyle Hotel in two waves - 9:30 PM and 10:30PM. Please arrive at the Doyle Hotel for your shuttle to the venue no later than 4:15 PM. Ubers and Lyfts will be available, though we recommend scheduling your rides home in advance given the remoteness of our venue.

Yes, you can drive yourself as there is ample parking at the venue. We do ask, however, that if you intend to drink that you utilize either the provided shuttle buses or a taxi.

Shuttles to the venue will be arriving at 5:00 PM ahead of a 5:30 PM ceremony time. If you are planning to drive yourself, please arrive at 5:00 PM and utilize the designated parking areas.

While we can't wait to see everyone, we ask that you do not arrive before 5:00 PM.

We ask that you please dress formally. All colors are welcomed and encouraged, except for white. The event will be a mixture of in/outdoor, with a lot of dancing in between, so bring a pair of comfortable shoes.

Weathering permitting, the ceremony and cocktail hour will be outside. The reception will be indoors.

Only to tip your bartenders.

We've been living together for a while and have most of the household items we need. We would be honored if you would consider contributing to our future as we start our married life together. There are options in the registry to contribute to our house and honeymoon fund. 


Please reach out to Brendan or Kaitlyn, our families have a few pre-booked rooms that are no longer needed and we would happy to transfer the bookings to our guests