Kaitlyn & Cody

Saturday, October 3, 2026 • Stone Harbor, NJ
493 Days To Go!

Kaitlyn & Cody

Saturday, October 3, 2026 • Stone Harbor, NJ
493 Days To Go!

When and where is the wedding?

October 3rd, 2026 The Reeds at Shelter Haven 9601 3rd Avenue Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

What time should guests arrive?

The wedding ceremony will begin at 4:30 pm on Saturday October 3rd, 2026. There will be a Welcome Party the night before for those who want to spend time with the bride and groom before the big day!

Are plus one's & kids allowed?

We are so excited to celebrate with our closest family and friends! Please note that our wedding is by INVITATION ONLY. To keep our wedding intimate, we kindly ask that only those listed on the invitation attend. Plus ones and children under 21 are NOT permitted unless specifically invited by the bride and groom. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate with you!

Is there a dress code?

Coastal Chic beachy vibes! No white that's Kait's color! No jeans, semi-formal (ties not required), pop off its a party!

Is there a hotel block?

A select amount of discounted guest rooms have been blocked at The Reeds at Shelter Haven, the location of our wedding. Please call 609.368.0100 to reserve your stay. You must mention our two last names (Lemay-Wise) and our wedding date (October 3, 2026) in order to receive a discounted room from our block. Reservations will be based on block availability. Other hotel recommendations will be provided for those who did not get a blocked hotel room at the Reeds. Guest rooms will be released three months prior (7.3.26) to our wedding date so please make arrangements prior to this time.

Will the ceremony and reception be at the same location?

YES! Everything is at The Reeds!

Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

BOTH!

Will there be a meal?

YES! Your meal choices will be included in your wedding invitation. You will fill out your choice and mail your rsvp back with the provided stamp and envelope!

Where are we registered?

We have a registry section on our website that includes the knot registry as well as other registries like Amazon, Target, William Sonoma, & Pottery Barn. We also have a home improvement fund that guests can contribute to.

Is there a hashtag for the wedding?

YES! #thewisewedding2026

Are phones/cameras allowed?

We would like an unplugged ceremony and will ask everyone to silence or turn their phones off. Don't you worry, our awesome photographer Casey has got us covered and Kait will make sure everyone gets the memories from the special day when the photos are ready!

Who should I contact with questions?

For any questions regarding travel, hotel rooms, dress code, etc. please contact the mother of the bride Jackie Lemay jkslemay@msn.com | 908-386-0131