How and when do I RSVP for the wedding?
We ask that you please RSVP by April 27th. We prefer that you RSVP on our wedding website for an accurate headcount, thank you!
Can I bring a plus one?
Unfortunately there is a limit on the guests we can invite and cannot accommodate a plus one for everyone. Please refer to your invitation - if you have a plus one, we have listed her/his name or "Guest" on your invitation.
When should I get to the ceremony?
The ceremony will start promptly at 1pm (EST). You are welcome to come into the church earlier -- we recommend you arrive by 12:45pm in order to give you time to find a seat.
What is there to do in between the ceremony and reception?
We encourage you to explore the local sights! The wedding venue is located in Red Bank, a quaint, walkable town with different cafes, restaurants, shopping, and local attractions. The church is located in Atlantic Highlands, a pedestrian-friendly coastal town with a commercial center and a walking trail by the water. For those spending time on-site at the Molly Pitcher Inn, there is a pool, bar, and restaurant. And for those who are adventurous, Sandy Hook beach is a short drive away!
For recommendations on restaurants, if you prefer to grab a quick bite/drink or lounge, please refer to the "Things to Do" tab.
What will the weather be like?
It will most likely be warm and sunny on our wedding day. Both the ceremony and the reception will be hosted in air conditioned buildings. We recommend checking the weather before packing and dressing for the day!
Where should I stay?
We have a limited room block at Molly Pitcher Inn as well as the Hub in Middletown. To book a room in either of our room blocks, please refer to the Accommodations tab for instructions.
Can I park at the venues?
Yes, there is plenty of parking at both venues. There will be valet parking at the reception at the Molly Pitcher Inn.
Most importantly, when will we eat?
Cocktail hour will begin 6pm at the reception venue, with dinner service to follow. There will be waitstaff to help you select your dinner course. Gluten free, vegetarian, & vegan options are available.
Given that the ceremony starts at 1pm, we recommend having a hearty meal beforehand and/or bringing snacks/planning to get a light bite in between the ceremony and reception.
What should I wear?
The dress code for both the ceremony and reception is formal attire.
Where are you registered?
While we initially hoped to register, we are currently living in a space-limited apartment in New York City and plan to move a couple times before we settle down. If you would like to support registry-like gifts for when we do settle down in the future, you can do so in the registry tab. Your support is deeply appreciated!