NO. Parking at the Darlington House is ONLY street parking and is TOUGH (think like 5 spots to share with all of La Jolla's beach crowd - we really cannot stress how little parking there will be on a Saturday afternoon). So please plan to arrive 30min early if you do not plan to take an Uber or Lyft to the venue. Don't be the reason we start the ceremony late!!

Kids may attend the Pickleball Tournament and Welcome Party on Friday. Our wedding ceremony and reception on Saturday is adult-only. As much as we love your little ones, please leave them at home and make it a date night out!

We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests list just to those who know us well. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated.

Yep! Please wear black (yes, the color). Attire is black-tie optional. This means suits, tuxes, gowns, jumpsuits, or more formal cocktail dresses are acceptable. And, if you're wondering, having our guests in all-black allows our photographer to capture your gorgeous faces without distraction. Thank you for indulging us! :)

A variety of good options, fear not! Gluten-free, Dairy-free, and vegan options will be provided.

Honestly, we love our people and we want to spend time with you! If you are unable to attend one of our pre-wedding events, don't sweat it. We'll see you on the big day!