The ceremony will be held at the venue where the reception is being held; Flowerfield St. James. The ceremony will be outside on the venue's Island Gazebo weather permitting.

Hospitality hour starts at 6:00 PM with welcome drinks and light bites. We ask that guests who will be attending the ceremony arrive at this time to settle in and find their seats. The ceremony will begin promptly at 6:30 PM.

Formal attire: We suggest guests wear a suit in any color or a floor-length or cocktail dress (or even a nice pantsuit).

If your invitation says " & guest" or you and your significant other's name, then yes. If the invitation is addressed solely to you than we ask that you please RSVP only for yourself and do not attend with a plus one.

If your child's name was included on your invitation then they are welcome!

Yes, there are discounted room blocks at the Hilton Garden Inn. Please visit the "Travel" page on the website for more details.

We tried to make it convenient for our guests and keep everything in one place! Please visit the "Registry" page of our website and see what we have registered for.

Yes, all locations are easily wheelchair accessible and onsite staff will be available for any assistance that may be required.

We ask that all guests RSVP by May 1st, 2026, the latest. You can RSVP directly on our wedding website.

For guests coming from out of town or not familiar with the area, there are plenty of things to do! There are surrounding golf courses, nature parks, restaurants, and shopping. If visiting NYC is something on your list, it is only a train ride away. Just look up the LIRR schedule from Central Islip to Penn Station.

Valet parking will be provided by Flowerfield the day of the event! Please note that we will be providing a transportation shuttle from the Hilton Garden Inn hotel to the venue and back to the hotel at the end of the night. We want to ensure that everyone gets home safely!

Absolutely! Please include that information on your RSVP so we can inform the caterer. If you forgot, just reach out and let us know!