RSVPs will open after formal invitations are sent. Formal invites will be sent in late October or early November. We ask that you RSVP shortly after receiving your invite as they will close the day after Christmas, December 26th.

Dress code is Black Tie optional. This is a formal event and we ask that you dress appropriately. Please no blue jeans, hats, casual wear, etc. Khakis/chinos and cocktail dresses are fine.

We ask that you kindly turn off and put away all devices during the ceremony. As our ceremony is a religious sacrament held in a church it is extremely disrespectful to pull out your phone or camera. If you pull out either you may be asked to leave. If you need to use your phone please step outside or to the vestibule in the back of church. We have hired a professional for a reason. You are welcome to take as many pictures as you want during the reception.

Unless your invite is addressed to you + guest, no. We have a strict guest limit. All invitees will either be listed on the envelope your invite comes in or will be on the RSVP page.

Unless stated on your invite we ask that you kindly leave your children with someone else for the evening. Again, this is a formal adult event.

Ceremony: please arrive at least 15 minutes before the ceremony starts. If you show up late you may be asked to wait to enter until after the ceremony starts. Reception: arrive anytime during cocktail hour.

We are definitely looking into it as we have quite a few out of town guests! We will update when we have more info.

While your presence is the best gift we can ask for, we realize some of you would like to know about a physical gift. You can access our Amazon registry here on our website or by looking us up on Amazon. Since we have lived together for while now, we have most things we need, we also greatly appreciate cash gifts to use for our honeymoon or home repairs.