Chatham Bars Inn

Grab a Drink with the Bride and Groom!

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

After Party

Breakfast Buffet

Our Wedding

Kino and Becca's story started on December 9th, 2017. They were introduced by a mutual friend who played baseball with Kino and who was (and continues to be) one of Becca's best friend's significant other. (And he will never stop reminding them of that- so here is the honorary shout-out to Dan Chambers). The first interaction included a DM from Becca to Kino on Instagram with a conversation of Becca watching Arthur's Christmas (still one of her favorite Christmas movies). After a few days of back-and-forth messages, they met up and watched Criminal Minds... very foreshadowing of the many crime shows and documentaries they would come to watch together later. Kino and Becca were quickly inseparable. They supported each other at one another's collegiate sporting events, including Becca bundling up in all the winter gear and with a blanket to watch Kino play baseball on the snow-covered fields of New England in "spring", occasionally sneaking away for a Starbucks drink to warm up. Meeting just 6 months before Becca graduated from Anna Maria, they moved into a bit of a "long-distance" relationship. Facetime calls and weekend trips became frequent occurrences. Kino came to love the loud and crazy side of Becca's family, and well Becca came to not love the Cape traffic during the summer months. However, that two and a half hour ride back and forth changed when Becca got accepted into the Sport Psychology program at Florida State University. Becca received the acceptance notification while sitting in the car with Kino to which Kino, being the supportive individual he is said, "I guess we are moving to Tallahassee" with no hesitation. And so they did in August of 2021. Having moved across the country for their first time living together, Kino and Becca quickly fell into sync. Being in Tallahassee for 4 years now, they spend time mixed in with the new community they have built amongst many game nights, movie weekends, and of course FSU football games and tailgates (Kino's favorite). Becca and Kino's next stop will be Oneonta New York in the Fall of 2025 to start a new journey together with Becca for the first time no longer being a student.

How it all began...

Our Story

Photos

Mikey

Christina

Kobe

Bryanna

Tyrese

Victoria

Hunter

Sarah

Danielle

Marc

Cardale (Stelly)

Fili

Gregg

Wedding Party

Q + A

Our room block was previously filled, but new rooms have been added. However, there is limited availability. These rooms will be available on a first come first serve basis up until October 31st (or until the final room in the block is filled if that happens prior to October 31). So, if you are planning to stay on site, we would love to have you, so please work to reserve your room as soon as possible. We have a discounted rate room block set up directly on-site at the wedding venue, Chatham Bars Inn. Please call the front desk and state you are reserving for the Foti/Gray Wedding, or copy and paste the link below into your browser to ensure you are getting the discount. There is no night minimum. You are able to book for just Sunday night of the wedding, or as early as Friday night. https://be.synxis.com/?adult=2&amp;arrive=2025-12-13&amp;chain=10237&amp;child=0&amp;config=HYACB&amp;currency=USD&amp;depart=2025-12-15&amp;group=2512FOTI&amp;hotel=32520&amp;level=hotel&amp;locale=en-US&amp;productcurrency=USD&amp;rooms=1&amp;theme=HYACB

For guests flying in the closest airport is in Boston which is about an hour and a half drive to the venue. However, depending on where you are flying from you may want to explore and compare prices at other airports that are a bit further such as in Rhode Island.

Boston Logan International Airport

Travel

Christmas by The Sea

Restaurants

Hole in One98 MA-6AOrleans MA Chatham Squire487 Main StreetChatham MA Red Nun Bar &amp; Grill746 Main StreetChatham MA Chatham Corner Store1403 Old Queen Anne RdChatham MA Szechaun Delight1421 Orleans-Harwich RdEast Harwich MA 400 East Restaurant1421 Orleans-Harwich Rd #21Harwich MA Mom and Pops Burger1603 Main StChatham MA Stone L'Oven Pizza 280 Underpass RdBrewster MA Brax Landing Restaurant705 MA-28Harwich Port MA Land Ho!38 Main Street or MA-6AOrleans MA The Barley Neck5 BeachOrleans MA The Alley Bowling &amp; BBQ191 MA-6AOrleans MA

Things to Do

Registry

Kino & Becca

Kino & Becca

Wedding Party