Please RSVP by May 20th. We want to give our vendors ample time to plan for our headcount. If we do not receive an RSVP, it will be counted as a decline and we will not have chairs/food for you, so please RSVP!

You will be dearly missed, but we do understand that life happens! If you are not able to attend, please let us know ASAP so we can plan accordingly.

We appreciate our loved ones wanting to capture our day, but we hired an amazing photographer to do that for us. We will allow a moment at the beginning of the ceremony to take a picture, but after that we ask that devices be put away and on silent/turned off for our ceremony so we can let our photographer work her magic! After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos as you want.

Due to limited capacity, we are only able to accommodate those formally invited. We kindly ask you to only bring a plus one if it was addressed when you RSVP on our website. We would love to invite everyone but our capacity does not allow that. We ask you respect our decision about plus ones. If we somehow missed a spouse, please let Brady or I know.

Yes, your kids are welcome and will be addressed by name when you RSVP on our website. There will be alcohol and explicit music at the reception, so plan accordingly if you'd rather your kids not be there!

We would love for out guests to get a little fancy with us, therefore we are requesting semi-formal attire. Please, no jeans if you can. Our ceremony will be outside on grass, so plan shoes accordingly. Please avoid white, cream and ivory colors as those are reserved for the bride.

If you have any dietary restrictions or major allergies, please reach out to Kirstan or Brady. We will work with our caterer to accommodate any special dietary needs.

We will have a DD available starting at 10pm. He will start with those staying in Perham, and work towards out of town rides. If you are located further than 15 minutes away from Perham, please plan for other methods of transportation. Don't forget to tip the DD!!