Engagement Party

Welcome Shindig

Rehearsal Dinner

Sherwood Country Club

Wedding Day

Ceremony & Reception

Summer

Our Wedding

KOURTNEY'S VERSIONThe day I met Phil, my feelings were excitement and slight nervousness. Having met him through a dating website (Hinge) and speaking on a FaceTime prior, I had a sense of who I was going to meet. I was throughly attracted to him so I knew I'd at least have some eye candy for a few hours😜 Dinner was lovely and our conversation flowed effortlessly. There was one particular moment that made me raise an eyebrow thinking, "hmm.. I really like him". Danger Zone by Kenny Loggins came on, I have no shame so I started grooving and singing along. As did Phil. Immediately, I needed to know more about this man. After an amazing evening, Phil told me he'd be leaving to Scotland for 2 weeks. As a single girl in a world of men who would use something like that as an excuse to not see someone again, I didn't get my hopes up. To my surprise, Phil wrote me everyday after that. He was vulnerable and opened up to me. I remember thinking how refreshing that was. We were on the same page about everything we wanted in life. Eventually I began waiting for his texts and looking forward to hearing about the rounds of golf he played that day and how many points he made?? I knew as soon as he returned, I had to see him and confirm the feelings I'd been trying to rationalize for the last 2 weeks.At 9pm on a Sunday night, I lied to leave work early and got to his apartment as fast as possible. I could see him walking towards me and I ran his direction, jumping on him with all my limbs wrapped around his body. We stood there in silence, and in that moment I thought, this feels like home. I still feel those feelings and I'm so happy I get to continue jumping into those arms. Forever🤍

Our Story

Photos

Kourtney and Michelle met while working at Peets Coffee over 10 years ago. Over time they grew very close, developing one of the most important friendships in Kourtney's life. At times, Michelle was the only person she could count on to keep her going. Though Michelle lives in Santa Barbara now, they still have such a beautiful bond.

Michelle Irkhin

Bri is one of Kourtney's newer besties but it's as if they'd known each other for a lifetime. Introduced by Michelle (maid of honor), Bri and Kourtney hit it off right away in 2021. You could say that Bri, Riley, Phil, and Kourtney are 4 peas in a pod. They love to travel, have dinners, and go to events together. 

Brianna Bransteter

Areli and Kourtney were in the same dance class in middle school! Funny enough, Kourtney moved to Miami for some time, but when she came back to California, a mutual friend reintroduced them! Neither girl had any idea who the other was until they saw each other. Lets call it fate..they've been like sisters ever since.

Areli Reyes

This is another story about a friend connecting 2 more friends. Kourtney and Tanya were introduced at a Sharks game by their mutual friend, Katie. The 3 of them continued to hang out but one day Katie was unavailable so K and T decided to go out any way. Fast forward 6 years, the two are closer than they ever thought they'd be. Its safe to say that for both, their friendship is so special and unique, unlike any other.

Tanya Merrill

As many of you now know, Missy and Kourtney have been inseparable since they met during their first day at Apple in October 2022. Missy showed up from Manhattan, NY with her contagious energy and kind heart. Kourtney, Phil, and Lolli are so blessed to have her and can't wait to spend their special day together.

Caitlin (Missy) McAllister

Sam is Phil's younger brother and the middle of the three Seltzer boys. He and his wife Brita live in Oakland with their two amazing young children, Vivienne (who doesn't yet know she's the flower girl) and Graeme (who will definitely NOT be the ring bearer). 

Sam Seltzer

Danny (pictured here with nephew Graeme) is the youngest Seltzer brother. Dan recently moved back up to the Bay Area after many years in Southern California and can be found hanging out with Mike Tyson...or at the gym.

Dan Seltzer

Patrick and Phil met during the first week of freshman year in the UCLA dorms and have been close friends ever since. Patrick lives in San Fransisco with his beautiful wife Sarah and their two amazing kiddos, Aurora and Benjamin.

Patrick Newman

Ben and Phil met working together in San Fransisco. The two became roommates and have been best buds for over 15 years. Ben and his wife Brooke now live on a beautiful property in Wisconsin with their sweet doggos.

Benjamin Rosien

Wedding Party

Q + A

The bride and groom will be at a house nearby and suggest guests book this hotel, but all the listed hotels are close to each other and to the venue. The Westlake Village Inn comes highly recommended by the folks at Sherwood Country Club. No room block reserved, so please book early!

Westlake Village Inn

Hyatt Regency Westlake

Four Seasons Hotel Los Angeles at Westlake Village

Residence Inn by Marriott Los Angeles Westlake Village

Travel

This is a lovely place to have breakfast or brunch. They offer take out or you can dine in. Located across the street from Hyatt Regency Hotel.

Le Pain Quotidien Restaurant

Delicious place for lunch. Sandwiches and salads. Quick and convenient.

Mendicino Farms 