Will you require proof of vaccination?
Please be aware that we are requiring all guests at our wedding to be fully vaccinated or show proof of a negative COVID test from the past 48 hours. This is to protect everyone traveling for our wedding and the local community.
What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
We recommend guests arrive at Moli'i Gardens no later than 3:30 pm, our ceremony is located on Secret Island at 4:00 pm.
Guests must take a 5-7 min boat ride from the Moli`i dock to the Secret Island dock. The boat will make multiple trips to transport our entire party to/from the Ceremony. Late guests are not guaranteed transport to the island. Guests may board no earlier than 3:30pm. Our coordinator will facilitate the exact boat schedule on the day of the wedding. All guests must leave the Secret Island dock no later than 5:00 pm.
Cocktail hour and Reception will be held at Moli'i Gardens following the Ceremony.
How do I get to the wedding venue? Will transportation be provided?
Transportation will be provided from Beachcomber by Outrigger Waikiki, Honolulu to the venue and back.
If you are driving yourself, type: 49-345 Kamehameha Hwy, Kanoehe HI 96744 into your GPS. When you have arrived you will need to follow the signs to Moli'i Gardens, there will be signs to guide you to the boat to travel to the Secret Island for our Ceremony.
What is the dress code?
Beach Semi-Formal. Men think linen pants and a nice shirt, can be tropical, flip flops are okay. Ladies, nice summer dresses, think: Easter best meets hang out on the beach.
For pictures look on the "Travel Page"
Will the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception take place indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony will be on the beach. Cocktail hour and reception will be outdoors, but under a tent.
What will the weather be like?
The average temperature in October is high of 84. Hawaii is a jungle so there is always a chance of a light rain shower in the afternoon.
What will your wedding-day timeline look like?
Ceremony - 4:00 pm
Cocktail Hour/Photos - 5:00 - 6:00 pm
Dinner - 6:00 pm
Reception - 6:00 - 9:45 pm
Is there parking available at the wedding venue?
Yes, parking is free at the venue.
Can I bring my kids?
As much as we love the children in our lives we will be keeping the ceremony and reception an adults only event.
Will there be an open bar?
Yes, we are using a very fun bar service called Gazos who specialize in farm to cup cocktails and mocktails! Which means there will be delicious options for everyone. Let's keep it classy, by not over indulging and tipping our bar tenders well.
Have you booked hotel room blocks for guests?
Yes, please check out the lodging page for more information.
Can I take pictures during the ceremony to post on social media?
During the ceremony we will be asking our guests to put down their phones and enjoy. We will be hiring a professional to take photos. For the reception snap away and feel free to post on all the social media you desire.
What's the best way to RSVP?
On the RSVP page of this website.
When is the RSVP deadline?
August 1st, 2022. Yes that is a bit longer before the wedding date than normal, but for a destination wedding we really need an accurate guest count as soon as possible.
I can't attend the wedding in person. Will there be a virtual wedding celebration?
No due to lack of technology access at our venue.
Do you have a wedding registry?
Nope! Your presence is present enough for us. Check out the registry page on this site to see how you can bless others in honor of our wedding.
Can I bring my gift to the wedding?
Again, your presence is present enough. We are truly asking for no gifts. Also, since this is a destination wedding we would appreciate not having to figure out how to bring gifts back home. Thank you!
Will there be any other events to attend during the wedding weekend?
Oh heck yeah there will be! Check out the "Things To Do" page to see what we have planned. Kristen's love language is coordination and she has a jam packed schedule to maximize fun and adventure. Please let us know which adventures you will be joining us for.
Are there Restrooms?
Yes on both the Secret Island and Moli'i Gardens there are indoor restrooms available.
What's your wedding hashtag?
#spoonwedding
Is Kristen Changing her last name?
Nope. This isn't 1952. We are both keeping our names.