Do I need to RSVP?
Yes! Please RSVP via the website by April 1, 2024.
If you do not RSVP by that date but plan to come, please bring a lawn chair and sandwich :)
- as anyone who does not RSVP by April 1st will be marked as no.
Is there a dress code?
We request our guests to dress in semi-formal or cocktail attire! Dress your best as we will have a fantastic camera crew ready to take pictures all night!
We ask to please refrain from wearing colors typically reserved for the bride (ex. white, ivory, champagne).
*Ladies, please be aware the ceremony will be taking place on the grass. Ceremony and cocktail hour will be outside, reception is located in the barn.
Can I bring a date? Plus one? Extra people?
Due to limited space at our venue, we request you stick to assigned invites only, as we can only accommodate those on the list.
Thank you for understanding!
What if I can't make it?
You will be very missed. Please still RSVP "no". If you have already RSVP'd "yes", but find you cannot make it, please notify mother of the bride, Linda, (805)889-6313 or mother of the groom, Melanie, (562)708-1016
What time should I arrive at the venue?
Gates will open at 3:30pm.
Please give yourself time to find parking, sign the guest book, grab a refreshment, and get seated.
The ceremony will start at 4pm.
If you are late, please listen to instructions from our amazing coordinators, Ruby and Karen, who will be more than happy to help you get situated.
How do I get there? Where can I stay?
The venue has a small parking lot, but might fill up quickly. The Target parking lot is across the street and available for overflow.
Both are available for overnight parking if necessary.
We have a room block at the Courtyard by Marriott.
The link is provided under the Hotel tab. Please reserve your room as soon as possible, as they are filling up quickly.
Will there be an open bar?
Yes! We will have a variety of beers, wines, and a his/hers signature drink available!
We will take care of the drinks, but Please take care of our bartenders! Cash tip jars will be on hand.
If you plan to whoop it up at the bar, please be responsible and plan an uber/lyft/sober driver. We care for each of you, and innocent drivers, so please plan ahead! The hangover is on you ;)
Can I take photos/videos during the ceremony?
We would love for our guests to be completely present in the moment, therefore we are asking our guests to please "unplug" for the ceremony. We have hired a fantastic team of videographers and photographers, and would love our forever footage to not be hindered. After the ceremony, please feel free to take as many photos and videos as you would like! We would love for you to share with us your POV!
Do you have a registry?
Your presence is enough, but if you would like to gift us something we ask you to refer to the Registry tab where you will find our honeymoon fund. Thank you!