Wear your favorite formal attire and dancing shoes! Please avoid white/cream/light colors easily mistaken for white in low lighting. Please no jeans. Warning - numerous friends have asked if someone shows up in white if they can throw red wine on them. Please be aware if you show up in white you will leave in red.

We love your kids, but unfortunately, this will be an adult only party. If you see a couple kids dancing around it's our flower girls and ring bearers :)

While we love you, space and food is based on your RSVP by September 15th! If you REALLY want to celebrate and did not RSVP in time please bring your own chair, a sandwich, and BYOB.

We love everyone invited to join our day, and we have a very diverse group of people who love us back. Please save your political conversations for Thanksgiving dinner, it’s only a couple weeks away! If you get the sudden urge to talk politics, please shove a snack in your mouth and hit the dance floor instead!

We kindly ask that all our friends and family leave their weapons at home. We are super excited for drinks and dancing! Dance floor backflips welcome, weapons not. Find out why here: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-44349521