Lance & Abby

Lance & Abby

June 20, 2026 • Mount Vernon, MO
61 Days To Go!
Lance & Abby

Lance & Abby

June 20, 2026 • Mount Vernon, MO
61 Days To Go!

Q + A

Where is the wedding taking place?

Southern Charm Estate | 11189 State Hwy K Mt Vernon, MO 65712

Where should we park?

There is a designated parking lot with plenty of gravel spots on the property.

Is there a dress code?

We'd love to see our family and friends dressed up for our big day. We are requesting cocktail attire (semi-formal) for the evening. Please avoid colors traditionally reserved for the bride (whites, ivories, and creams).

Can I bring a guest/date?

Due to limited capacity, we will only be able to accommodate those specifically listed on your invitation. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to reach out!

Are kids invited?

We love children, but we are asking guests to refrain from bringing kids unless otherwise stated on the invitation. We are hoping this is a much deserved night out for the parents!

Is the venue indoor or outdoor?

Indoor! The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all be indoors.

Is the venue wheelchair accessible?

Yes, the chapel and reception facilities are all 100% ADA approved.

Can I take photos during the ceremony and reception?

We kindly request an UNPLUGGED ceremony. This means once the ceremony starts it is our wish that all cellphones will be silenced and put away. However, cellphones will be welcomed during cocktail hour and the reception.

Where do I RSVP?

RSVP's will open following formal invitations. Deadline TBD.

Is smoking allowed at the venue?

The designated smoking areas will be closed as the bride is a severe asthmatic. We ask that no one vape/smoke even outside.

Will there be an open bar?

Wine and beer will be provided at no charge! Hard liquor/speciality drinks are available for purchase with cash or card. Get ready to party!

Will dinner be served at the reception?

Yes, as well as appetizers at the cocktail hour. Come hungry!