Can I RSVP online or do I have to mail in an RSVP card? We invite you to RSVP by mailing in the RSVP card sent with the invitation. Formal invitations will be sent out after Save the Date cards.

What date should I RSVP by? Please RSVP by SEPTEMBER 1st.

What is the easiest way to get to and from your wedding venue? The venue is easily reachable by car, taxi, or rideshare.

Is there parking available near your wedding venue? Valet parking will be provided.

Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors? Weather permitting the ceremony will be held outdoors in front of The Three Village Inn. The reception will be indoors and there is an outdoor courtyard to enjoy.

Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels? Yes please call the Three Village Inn for booking: (631) 751-0555. Our room block code is - Bowman2024.

Will there be a shuttle to and from the rooms/hotels? The Three Village Inn rooms and suites are within walking distance from the reception area. However, there is no shuttle available from The Three Village Inn to other hotels.

What is the dress code for our wedding? Please follow our formal attire dress code.

Are there any colors or styles you would prefer me to wear? We suggest that you wear a color of your choice and liking, but if you want to match our color scheme it’s blue. Keeping an Irish tradition, blue symbolizes love's purity and loyalty.

What is the weather like in the area? Although we can’t predict the weather, Long Island during September isn’t humid, and the temperature is very comfortable.

Will there be meal options for guests with dietary restrictions or allergies? Yes, there will be an option of gluten & dairy-free food choices. There will also be vegetarian dishes.

Will there be an open bar? The bar will be open from the start of the cocktail hour up until the end of the reception.

Where should we bring or send our wedding gift? Your attendance is the greatest gift of all. If you’d like to honor us with a gift, you can deliver it to our home or bring it to the bridal shower. The link to our registry is also provided on this website and a wedding card box will also be present at our reception.

What time should I arrive at our wedding ceremony? Please arrive half an hour before the ceremony begins at 5:30pm at The Three Village Inn.

What time does the wedding reception end?  Our reception ends at 11 pm.

Will there be a gap between our wedding ceremony and the reception?  We've decided to make it accessible for all and the reception will now immediately follow the ceremony at The Three Village Inn.

Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?  Taking photos at our ceremony and reception is encouraged.

Can I post wedding photos on social media? Hashtag?   Feel free to post media using the hashtag #thebowmanandtemperawedding

I have more questions about your wedding, who can I contact? Please feel free to email me at: LaurenJBowman@yahoo.com

L&J

Wedding Day

5:30 PM–6:00 PM

Ceremony

6:00 PM–11:00 PM

Reception