We ask for everyone to mail back their RSVP card by April 15th.

We suggest arriving at 3pm to ensure enough time to take your seat before the 3:30pm prompt start time.

St. Vincent Ferrer is a 10 minute drive or a 25 minute walk to the Essex House. We recommend parking around the Essex House and taking an Uber / Taxi to the church for the ceremony and back to the reception site.

We expect to end the wedding ceremony around 4:30pm and we plan to do a ribbon-waving exit from the church, so if able, please stick around! There will be ~2 hours between the end of the ceremony and the beginning of the reception cocktail hour. We recommend taking a walk through Central Park, visiting Bel Ami for a pastry (where we had our first date), or going back to your hotel to freshen up.

For men: Black tie optional invites you to wear a tuxedo or a dark suit and tie if preferred. For women: Black tie optional suggests an evening gown or a sophisticated cocktail dress.

To ensure a personalized experience for all our guests, please refer to the names indicated on your invitation to confirm who is included in your party.