It’s funny how life works sometimes. Though we officially met in DC through a mutual friend, it turns out our families had already crossed paths years before—we both grew up in military families and even lived just blocks apart in Nebraska. Little did we know that those early near-misses were just the beginning of a much bigger story.

When we met, Aaron loved hip-hop, and I was a goth girl who shared his love for video games. We bonded over Guitar Hero and spent hours laughing and playing together. Life had other plans for us, though, and our paths took us in different directions more than once. Those years apart gave us both the space to grow, reflect, and figure out who we wanted to be—not just for ourselves but for each other.

By 2019, we’d each learned some valuable lessons. I realized how much Aaron’s steadiness and kindness had always meant to me, and Aaron had spent time reflecting on his own patterns and embracing the kind of growth that turned us into true partners. After a weekend with Aaron and Demi, it became clear that we weren’t just reconnecting—we were ready to build something together. That moment on the couch, asking if we wanted to give this another go, felt like the start of a whole new chapter.

Since then, we’ve built a partnership that’s rooted in mutual respect, humor, and a shared commitment to growth. Aaron has taught me the power of simple, heartfelt phrases like “I appreciate you,” and I’ve shared my own lessons in persistence and self-discovery. Together, we’ve grown into a team that thrives on great food, horror movies, sci-fi novels, and the kind of moments that make us laugh until we cry.

From reuniting on Easter weekend in 2019 to getting engaged on Easter in 2023, our story is one of second chances, transformation, and a love that has only deepened with time. We can’t wait to celebrate this next chapter with all of you—the people who’ve supported and shaped us along the way.

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