Meet Millie and Ryder, our sweet little sidekicks and the most precious flower girls we could ever ask for! The fun, silly, loving, crazy, joyful, sometimes exhausting lights of Ryan and Lexi's life! Thank you girls for making us realize that one day we want a family. These two hold such a special place in our hearts — we've spent countless days together filled with laughter, hugs, and unforgettable adventures (including a very firm rule: Ryan does not do poopy diapers). From dance parties to snack time snuggles, we've built the kind of bond that feels like family. We love these girls so much and can't wait to see them sprinkle their magical personalities and joy (and petals) down the aisle on our big day.

David is ecstatic to be playing the role of Best Man in the Lefton Chase Wedding. He was blessed to have attended NYU Tisch school of the arts with a septuple major in Acting, Performance Acting, Dramatic Acting, Acting as an Actor, and Acting Acting. He has plenty of wedding experience; being blessed to be a part of a two-man wedding band playing exclusively classic country and pop punk, and being blessed to be wed himself. Some other credits include: False East, The Wedding Bells! Somebody forgot the Wedding Bells!, Goodbye, Laddy!, $#+*@ I'm a ghost??,Who's Spooked of Carolina Badger, The Eastern Washington Repetory Murder Mystery Musical Comedy "Ouch", and Angels in America.

He met Ryan on the street a few weeks ago, desperate for someone to play the part of Best Man.

David is blessed to be double cast with Benjamin Kaufman, who was also asked only weeks ago.

He thanks all who have come to support him in this powerful and exciting new role!

Benji Kaufman (Co-Best Man) has been lauded as “the best actor of his generation.” The accolades for his career include 9 Golden Globe Awards and 21 Oscar Nominations, winning 3 for Kramer vs. Kramer (1979), Sophie’s Choice (1982) and The Iron Lady (2011). President Barack Obama awarded him the National Medal of Arts and the Presidential Medal of Freedom. He was awarded the Golden Globe Cecil B. DeMille Award in 2017. Film Credits: Mamma Mia!; The Devil Wears Prada; Death Becomes Her; Postcards From the Edge; It’s Complicated; Doubt; Out of Africa; Julie & Julia; and The River Wild. Thanks to Ryan and Lexi for including him in his greatest role yet.

Wayne Holland (he/him) is so excited to be cast as “Pink” for his third time in a wedding party! #DEIearnedit! Other notable roles include Wedding Party: Pink Groomsman in Holland & Marz, Pink Bridesmaid in Bradley & Wright. Off-Wedding Party: Vague usher in Wright & Francis, ignored pianist in Various, and a series regular in the Simi Valley Mayoral Race. An immense amount of love & gratitude for my support system! It truly takes a village! @champwayneiii

“The Chicago Friend. The Out of Town Guy. The Hey We Need An Actor For Our Murder Mystery Musical”. Charlie met Ryan in Moorpark College while performing Two Gentlemen of Verona and have remained fast friends ever since. Countless hours spent together creating shows and performing one act plays in John Loprieno’s black box theater. And that was just the beginning! Charlie is honored to be one of Ryan’s groomsmen and friends. 2000 miles and The Rocky Mountains couldn’t stop Charlie from helping Ryan start the next Act of his life’s play. “Love you buddy”!

Greg and Ryan met in 2013 when they were cast in a show running for two months in downtown LA. Both based in Simi Valley, they chose to carpool together, engaging in intimate conversation while they fought traffic five days a week. It was there that Greg was repeatedly subject to Ryan’s tearful accounts of sexual frustration and G-rated adventures throughout his tenure at NYU. As a recent LA implant who was desperate for friends himself, Greg made the mistake of thinking that he couldn’t get much better than this and allowed Ryan to introduce him to his group of fellow Ventura County thespians — many of whom you see on the altar today. Over the years that followed, Greg found a home with this group and credits them for instilling a sense of safety and welcomeness so far from home. Ryan, the engineer behind this operation, has quietly revealed himself to be one of the most life-changing friends Greg has ever had. Greg is really happy to be here, thrilled for Ryan and Lexi, and relieved that listening to Ryan’s babbling all those years ago proved to be a smart long-term investment.

Eric is very excited to be part of the Ryan and Lexi wedding production. Thrilled to be cast as friendship of fate/wildcard trivia partner but most importantly Starbucks obsession allied entrepreneur. Eric met Ryan in freshmen year and even though he transferred schools, the universe brought them back together with help from the guy cast as co-best man. The countless laughs, creative talks, inspiring coffee meetings has meant a lot. Looking back, No matter where life has taken them, their paths always seemed to cross again, and now, it’s an honor to stand by Ryan’s side as he takes on his biggest adventure yet.

It’s My Fault

Hi, I’m Brent—the Black Ranger—and yes, I’m responsible for this whole event. Yep, it’s all my fault.

Ryan and I first crossed paths at Moorpark College doing theatre, as most of his friendships seem to start. He left for some fancy acting school in NYC while I stayed local, building a family and a business. When Ryan returned, he asked if I needed an acting coach, and I promptly hired him to direct at my performing arts studio—then called Breakthrough, now Born to Perform Studio, where both Ryan and Lexi have since sold their souls.

Lexi started out as my voice student back when the studio was just a dream and I taught private voice lessons from a music room. As the studio grew, she traded voice lessons for admin support, becoming invaluable in keeping things running. Naturally, when Ryan joined, I asked Lexi to help manage rehearsals and performances.

Clearly, I knew exactly what I was doing. So, here we are, celebrating Ryan and Lexi—and my unmatched matchmaking skills. You’re welcome.

Brandon is Ryan's younger brother. One time, Ryan threw a cane at Brandon while playing causing him to spit out Pizza, which their dad thought knocked out all of Brandon's teeth. Now we can laugh about it. He still loves him though. Also, Ryan and his mom left Brandon at a gas station once...but, He still loves him.

This friendship is definition of pure joy, pure fun, pure connection and pure light. From the moment they became high school choir friends it was clear Lauren was someone who Lexi needed in her life. Lauren left such a beautiful impact on that time of Lexi's life and it only continued - so many years later. They share so many incredible memories from concerts, to always being down to go grab dessert, multiple high school adventures, getting piercings, driving around for no reason to sing old school songs at the top of our lungs, or drive to LA for an adventure? Lauren is your girl. The most fun, traditional sushi dates together are so cherished. Life discussions over happy hour together and connecting on how to navigate adulthood - nothing better. There’s something about Lexi and Lauren time together that always had been and always will be effortlessly joyful. They’ve seen each other through so much—through ups and downs and life craziness. Lauren is such a true and valuable person to have in your life.

It all started back in 8th grade, with the two of them sharing a bond in choir class, then each filled with that mix of nervous excitement as they were about to head into high school. From those early days of awkward teenage years, to learning how to drive and being excited with their new freedom (maybe Sam hit a mailbox? maybe Lexi NEVER knew the right directions anywhere?), to becoming two young adults ready to take on the world, Sam and Lexi were there for each other every single step of the way - never missing a beat. They traveled through Europe together in their twenties, nervous but excited, just like when they were nervous to start high school. Sam is the kind of person everyone wishes they had in their life, Sam’s presence feels like the safest space. The world knew Lexi needed a Sam, and that perfect match has made every step of the journey that much brighter.

One day in 8th grade there was a new girl in class talking about the Jonas Brothers. Obviously that caught Lexi's attention so they connected and started chatting - and never stopped - a beautiful, honest friendship blossomed. From sleepovers filled with late-night talks to the countless teenage shenanigans that defined their younger years, Lexi and Abby grew up together, learning, laughing, and navigating life side by side. Seeing Abby get married to her High School love, Tyler, might be one of the most heartfelt moments of Lexi's life. They used to talk about love and life and what it would be like to be grown adults, married...well, here we are. How time as flown and those two quirky teens would be so proud of who they are now and how they still love and respect each other so much so many years later.

Abby isn’t just a friend to Lexi; she’s a cornerstone of her life.

The year was 2000, and two little girls were placed in the same kindergarten class which shaped the rest of their lives. For 25 years, Chiara and Lexi haven’t stopped being a part of each other’s lives. Quite literally every childhood memory, every milestone of growing up, and every lesson learned was experienced together - they are family. Through going through different middle schools - they texted all day every day and spent every weekend together. Talk about the most laughter you've ever experienced? Those moments in Lexi's life were created because of Chiara. They taught each other so much. Time can pass - but once these two blondies talk or get together - it's right back to the giddy little girls who love eachother so deeply and know eachother so deeply. Chiara is the brightest light. Her laugh is infectious and her energy is the kind that makes everyone around her feel a little lighter, and a little brighter. She’s been the foundation of so many beautiful moments shaping the very core of who Lexi has become. In a world full of people, it’s rare to find someone who feels like home, but with Chiara, that’s exactly what it is—home.

It’s the kind of connection that defies time, where you meet as adults, yet it feels like you’ve known each other since childhood. Navigating your late twenties and thirties is an entirely different kind of adventure, one full of personal growth, shifts in priorities, and a deeper understanding of who you really are. Through this stage of life Lexi and Lara have become quite the duo and how utterly grateful Lexi is for her. Lara is the person who perfectly matches the energy, humor, quirks and dreams with Lexi. She’s the one you know will always understand your struggles and celebrate your successes as if they were her own. They have realized that they are SO similar in who they are now and who they were as young girls. What an epic adventure that would have been had they met if they were younger! The great part? They are pretty much constantly stuck together for the rest of their lives because 1) they love eachother but 2) their future husbands have been best friends their whole lives (Lara's future husband is Co-Best Man -Benji Kauffman). The date nights when we are old and wrinkly - going to be epic. And we will most certainly still be going on sushi nights and celebrating holidays together. In a world full of connections, Lara is friendship that fills your heart with joy and makes you truly appreciate the beauty of having the perfect match. It's more than just sharing memories; it's about walking through life’s new chapters together, with someone who makes every step feel more meaningful.

Stacy and Ryan were friends for years—then Lexi met Stacy and, in true bold fashion, gracefully hijacked the friendship. Can you blame her? Stacy’s the kind of person you meet once and immediately decide, yep, mine now. The friendship between Lexi and Stacy is more than just a connection—it’s a sisterhood, the kind that’s forged in both spunk and laughter. It’s the kind of bond that doesn’t just happen - it’s chosen, nurtured, and fiercely protected. They met and immediately it was the type of friendship that they knew they could tell each other absolutely anything and understand it. There's an unspoken knowing that they were meant to be in each other’s lives. With Stacy and Lexi there's no emotion is too big, no secret too small. It's always arms open, heart first. There’s a beautiful combo to this friendship: wildly fun yet deeply grounding. They see each other. Their friendship has become something extraordinary: a chosen family, a safe haven, and a lifelong love.

My Big Brothers: My whole life my two older brothers have been my built-in best friends, protectors, and lifelong hype team - no matter what. To be raised with them - by them- what a lucky sister am I?! They've been there for every big or important moment of my life. It only makes sense that on the most important day of my life, they’d be standing by my side as my bridesmen. I couldn’t imagine saying "I do" without them right there, cracking jokes, calming nerves - making everything feel just right and bringing the celebration! My life wouldn't be complete without both of my brothers. We've watch and supported eachother grow in so many ways and I am forever grateful for them being such inspirations in my life. Kab love you guys more than you'll ever know!