Although we love your little ones, our wedding is an adult only event.

Plus ones are by invitation only; if on your invitation it does not say plus one, please refrain from bringing one.

We are requesting all our guests wear black. Ladies, floor-length dresses. Men, tuxedos.

We will be having a welcome party on Tuesday evening for anyone who is in town and would like to attend. There is lots to do in Saratoga (even in the cold weather), so please refer to the “things to do” page if you are looking to come for a few days!

We recommend staying at The Adelphi Hotel or Embassy Suites to be closest to the festivities of the wedding. The Adelphi has a room block under Brenenstuhl/Leary wedding. *Please call to book* Please see “travel” section for additional information about hotel room blocks. There are also a TON of Airbnb’s & VRBO’s in the area for larger groups or those of you looking to enjoy the area a little longer!

Please arrive 25-30 minutes before our ceremony start time to ensure a timely seating.

Transportation will not be provided by the brides. Most hotels will provide shuttle service to and from downtown. Please ask your hotel of choice for greater details. Uber/Lyft are also available.

The Adelphi offers valet parking for all guests and wedding attendees. If you are staying at the Adelphi, you do not need to worry about parking day of! If you stay at the Embassy Suites, The Adelphi is a 5 minute walk… but with questionable weather, keep Uber in mind. If you are staying further away or driving straight to the ceremony, please be aware that there is a New Year’s Eve festival/block party in Saratoga that takes place very close to the Adelphi. Please plan accordingly.

Both our ceremony and reception will take place inside The Adelphi Hotel.

Our ceremony will be an unplugged ceremony, meaning we kindly ask that our guests do not take photos for the duration of our ceremony. We have hired an amazing photographer who will take all the photos and we will be happy to share them with you. You may take as many photos as you’d like during cocktail hour and reception, but only if you share them with us!

We haven’t taken them yet - surprise, surprise! We will share them once they are done.

We recommend you bring warm layers and dress for unpredictable winter conditions as NYE & NYD in upstate NY tend to have varying temperatures, year to year.

YES! We can’t wait to share our “signature drinks” with you, also.

Don’t be silly! The first question we asked when we were venue shopping was if our four legged babies could attend. Of course, they will both be in attendance throughout the day and evening.

Your presence is present enough, but should you wish to bring a gift to our wedding, there will be a card/gift table for your convenience and we are also registered on Amazon.

TBD! Our event ends at 12:30AM and the bars in town close @ 2:00AM. We will most likely stay onsite, as The Adelphi has offered to keep their bars open late for us.

Please mail back your responses by the RSVP deadline outlined on your formal invitation. Please don’t make us chase you!

No, but a wise woman suggested #CelebrateLindsandKate. If it sticks, so be it!

Please contact Lindsey, as we all know Kate doesn’t always answer her phone and her voicemail box has been full for over a decade.