We understand that many of our guests are not familiar with the traditions present at a Traditional Catholic Mass Wedding Ceremony. We hope the information on this tab will illustrate the intricate workings and beauty of every part of the Mass so our guests can fully understand and fully experience our ceremony.
On our wedding day, we want to share what we love the most with the people we love the most: our Catholic faith. It is important for our guests to know that while our ceremony is about the union of two people who love each other, the main reason we are there is to celebrate the greatest gift ever given to humankind, the Crucified Jesus.He is fully present in the Eucharist at every mass, and He is the most important person present during our ceremony. We hope our wedding day resembles even an ounce of the outpouring, infinite love Christ has for each and every one of us.
If you have any questions about our ceremony or Catholicism, please reach out to the Bride at 931-337-8188 or the Groom at 931-494-6692. We will happily answer any and all questions.
Due to the reverence of the Mass, we kindly ask that any guests with small children remove themselves from the ceremony if their little one gets fussy.
Vestibule- a spacious anteroom that serves as a transition space between the outdoors and the main church building.
Narthex- the church's entrance that's located between the nave and the door.
Nave- the central area of the church that's reserved for the laity, or the ordinary people.
Clerestory- the upper part of a church building that contains windows to light the interior (stain glass windows).
Crossing- the area where the transept intersects the main body of the church.
North/South Transept- Because the liturgy is supposed to be celebrated ad orientem (facing east), the left side of the transept is called the north transept and the right side of the transept is called the south transept.
Ambo- An ambo is a raised desk or platform in a Catholic church where the word of God is proclaimed during Mass.
Alter- the altar is a central table or structure that represents the presence of Christ, the heart of Christians, and the place where the priest celebrates the Eucharist.
Sanctuary- the front area of the church that contains the altar, where the priest stands during Mass, and where the Word of God is proclaimed.
Ambulatory- a covered passage or aisle that circles around the apse or chancel at the east end of the church.
Apse- a semicircular recess that's typically found at the end of the cathedral.
Notice the shape of the chapel. The transubstantiation of the host occurs at the alter where Christ's head is, and Communion occurs at the crossing where Christ's heart is.
Order of Celebrating Holy Matrimony Within Mass
Entrance Rite
The assembly stands. An entrance hymn is sung while everyone processes in. The processional order is as follows:
1. Priest, Deacon, and Alter Servers
2. Groomsman
3. Best man
4. Groom
5. Bridesmaids
6. Maid of Honor
7. Ring bearer and Flower Girl
8. Groom's Maternal Grandmother
9. Groom's Parents
10. Bride's Maternal Grandmother
11. Bride and her Mother
Greeting
Father begins Mass with the Sign of the Cross. He welcomes all guests, and it is customary to respond back.
Gloria
The Gloria is sung, preferably by the whole assembly. The words to the Gloria can be found on the inside cover of the hymnals on either side of the pews.
Opening Prayer
Father invites the assemble to pray, then offers a prayer for the Bride and Groom. At the conclusion of the prayer, the assembly is seated for the Liturgy of the Word.
First Reading
The first reading (from the Old Testament) is proclaimed by the lector. At the conclusion of the reading, the lector says, "The Word of the Lord," and the assembly responds, "Thanks be to God."
Responsorial Psalm
The cantor sings a psalm, and the assembly sings the response.
Second Reading
The second reading (from a book of the New Testament other than the Gospel) is proclaimed by the lector. At the conclusion of the reading, the lector says, "The Word of the Lord," and the assembly responds, "Thanks be to God."
Gospel Acclamation
The assembly stands. The cantor leads the assembly in singing the Gospel Acclamation, usually the Alleluia.
Gospel
The priest (or deacon) proclaims the Gospel. At the conclusion, he says, "The Gospel of the Lord," and the assembly responds, "Praise to you, Lord Jesus Christ." The assembly sits.
Homily
The priest (or deacon) offers a homily drawn from the Scripture readings. According to The Order of Celebrating Matrimony, the presider "uses the sacred text to expound the mystery of Christian Marriage, the dignity of conjugal love, the grace of the Sacrament and the responsibilities of married people, keeping in mind, however, the circumstances of this particular marriage" (#91, Catechism of the Catholic Church)
Address and Statement of Intentions
All stand, including the bride and groom and witnesses. The priest asks the couple questions to state their intentions about their freedom of choice, fidelity to each other, and the acceptance and upbringing of children. The bride and groom respond to each question separately, "I am."
Exchange of Consent
Father invites the couple to declare their consent to be married, which they do by stating their marriage vows. Father affirms the reception of the consent then leads the assembly in an acclamation which may be sung.
Blessing and Giving of Rings
The priest blesses the wedding rings through prayer and the sprinkling of holy water. The husband places his wife's ring on her finger, and the wife places her husband's ring on his finger.
The Universal Prayer
The Universal Prayer is read by a lector, cantor, or another designated person. The reader usually offers each intercession ("For ..., we pray to the Lord.") and the assembly responds with an appropriate response, such as, "Lord, hear our prayer."
Presentation and Preparation of the Gifts
The assembly sits and sings the Offertory Hymn while the altar is prepared and the gifts of bread and wine are brought to the altar. When the priest says, "Pray, brethren (brothers and sisters), that my sacrifice and yours may be acceptable to God, the almighty Father," the assembly stands.
Eucharistic Prayer
The priest prays the Eucharistic prayer (parts of which he may sing). During the Eucharistic prayer, the assembly offers three acclamations, which are usually sung:
1. Sanctus (Holy, Holy) - Assembly kneels after singing
2. Memorial Acclamation
3. Amen- Assembly stands after signing
The Lord's Prayer
The assembly prays or sings together the Lord's Prayer (the Our Father)
Nuptial Blessing
The couple kneels at the altar where the priest faces them . The priest invites all present to join in silent prayer for the couple then extends his hands over the bride and groom and offers the blessing.
Sign of Peace
The priest invites the assembly to offer one another a sign of peace. The newly married couple and people in the assembly exchange a sign of peace (a handshake, hug, or kiss, usually accompanied by the words, "Peace be with you") with those immediately around them.
Lamb of God
The priest breaks the host (Eucharistic bread) while the assembly sings the "Lamb of God." The assembly kneels after singing.
Communion
The priest distributes the Body and Blood of Christ to Catholics in the assembly, beginning with the newly married couple. An appropriate hymn is usually sung as the assembly proceeds to the altar for communion. Please note that only Confirmed and Baptized Catholics may receive the Eucharist.
Blessing
The presider prays a solemn blessing over the married couple and the whole assembly. All participate in the blessing by repeatedly responding, "Amen." The ritual text indicates the witnesses may sign the marriage license in front of the assembly, though never with the license on the altar.
Dismissal
As with any Mass, the priest dismisses the assembly with an exchange like "Go in peace to glorify the Lord with your life" to which all gathered respond "Thanks be to God."
Recessional
The priest invites the newlyweds to exchange their first kiss. The couple, bridal party, alter servers, and clergy exit the church.
Catholic Questions
What is the structure of Mass?
The Mass has three main parts: Introductory Rites, Liturgy of the Word, and Liturgy of the Eucharist. See above for more a detailed description of each part of the mass.
What should I wear to Mass?
There is no dress code for Mass, however many individuals chose to wear more modest clothing in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament for personal reasons. Dress how you feel comfortable, and follow our color pallet is you choose.
What is the sign of peace?
After the Lord's Prayer, people exchange a sign of peace, usually a handshake, hug, or kiss. If you are uncomfortable with this, you can nod or wave instead.
What is the Tabernacle?
The Tabernacle is a large golden sanctuary where the Eucharist is kept. The True Presence of Christ is constantly present in the Tabernacle, which is why we enter the Nave with respect and reverence and genuflect before sitting in the pews. The Presence of Christ is shown by a lit red candle that hangs above the Tabernacle.
What is the Eucharist?
The Eucharist is the true Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of Jesus Christ under the appearances of bread and wine. In the celebration of the Eucharist, bread and wine become the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit and the instrumentality of the priest. The presence of Christ in the Eucharist is real, true, and substantial. It is not a symbol. It is the source and summit of Christian life.
Where is the Eucharist mentioned in the Bible?
The Lord Jesus, on the night before he suffered on the cross, shared one last meal with his disciples. During this meal our Savior instituted the sacrament of his Body and Blood. He did this in order to perpetuate the sacrifice of the Cross throughout the ages and to entrust to the Church a memorial of his death and resurrection. The Institution of the Eucharist is written down in the four Gospels below:
Matthew 26:26-30
Mark 14:22-26
Luke 22:14-20
John 6:22-59
Is the Eucharist a symbol?
The transformed bread and wine are truly the Body and Blood of Christ and are not merely symbols. When Christ said “This is my body” and “This is my blood,” the bread and wine are transubstantiated. Though the bread and wine appear the same to our human faculties, they are actually the real body and blood of Jesus.
Why can't I receive the Eucharist as a non-Catholic?
There is a fundamentally different understanding about communion (the Eucharist) for Catholics than for other Christians. We as Catholics believe in Christ’s real presence in the Eucharist. We believe that the bread and wine, when consecrated by the priest, are transformed into the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ. The fancy word for this is transubstantiation which simply means that the substance, the deepest reality of the bread and wine, are changed into the substance of Jesus Christ, Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity. Other Christians do not believe this. Most protestant Christians believe communion is only a symbol, a sign of Jesus’ love for us. These protestant churches have also not maintained a priesthood or an unbroken line of apostolic succession (a line of bishops as successors to the apostles), which is necessary for the consecration of the Eucharist. Every time we go to receive communion the minister holds up the Eucharist and says, “The Body of Christ,” and we respond, “Amen.” Amen means “I believe.” By saying "I believe" while receiving something you truly don't believe in, you would essentially be lying. Out of respect for you and your beliefs, for these reasons, please do not receive the Eucharist if you are not a Catholic.
Why is Mary important to Catholics?
One of the most fundamental reasons why Mary is important to Catholics is her role as the mother of Jesus Christ, who is considered the Son of God. As the mother of God, Mary has a unique relationship with Jesus, and her importance is inseparable from his. The Catholic Church teaches that Mary was chosen by God to be the mother of Jesus, and that she was conceived without sin in order to prepare her for this task and make her the perfect vessel for the Son of God.
Why do Catholics pray to Mary?
This belief is based on the idea that Mary, as the Mother of Jesus, has a special relationship with Him and can ask Him for favors. Many Catholics therefore pray to Mary and ask for her to pray for us in times of need, such as during illness or difficult times. Imagine you have fallen in love with your favorite person in the world. Who is the first person you would want them to meet in your family? Your mama. It is the same reason why Jesus asks us to go to Him through His Mother. Jesus loves His mother, and therefore, wants us to love her as well. He came to the world through her, and therefore, wants us to go through her to love Him more.
Where is praying to Mary in the Bible?
Rev 12:17
Luke 1:28
Luke 1:41-42
Luke 1:46-55
Luke 2:51
John 2:1-5
Do Catholics worship Mary?
No. Mary is not Divine, she is the Mother of the Divine. We honor her, love her, and ask for her intercession.
Why to Catholics pray to Saints?
It is the same reason we pray to Mary, Mother of God. The saints in Heaven are our brothers and sisters in Christ. They intercede for us here on earth. They are in full Communion with God, and because they are in Heaven, they are not dead, as God is the God of the living, not the dead (Matthew 22:32, Matthew 17:1-8, Matthew 27:52, Revelation 5:8; 8:3-4). They are the heavenly cloud of witnesses that inspire us, intercede for us, draw us deeper into communion with the blessed Trinity.
No. The Saints are not divine. They are humans in perfect communion and oneness with God. We honor them, love them, and ask for their intercession.
The Groom's Patron Saint:
St. Dominic
Feast Day: August 8th
Patron Saint of: Astronomers, astronomy, Dominican Republic, falsely accused people
Birth: 1170
Death: 1221
St. Dominic, pray for us.
The Bride's Patron Saint:
St. Agnus
Feast Day: February 21st
Patron Saint of: Young girls, chastity, rape survivors, Children of Mary
Birth: 291
Death: 304
St. Agnus, pray for us.
Do Catholics practice idolatry?
No, Catholics do not practice idolatry. The Catholic Church has consistently condemned idolatry since the time of the apostles. Catholics believe that images are not divine or worthy of worship, and that no petitions should be directed to them. Instead, Catholics believe that the honor given to images is meant for the people or objects they represent. For example, when Catholics pray before statues, they are praying to the person behind the image, not the image itself
What is the rosary?
The Rosary is a traditional Catholic prayer that seeks to honor Mary, the mother of Jesus. It consists of fifteen mysteries that recall the joyful, sorrowful and glorious moments in the life of Jesus and Mary.
Fun Fact:
The Bride is an avid Rosary collector :)
Can Catholics pray directly to God?
Of course! We can and do, every day. We also have the beautiful gift of speaking to our Lord through our Heavenly Mother and the Saints.
Why do Catholics call the priest "Father"?
Priests are our spiritual leaders and shepherds. Just as we call our biological parent "Father" for his guiding role in our lives, we call priests "Father" for guiding our spiritual lives.
What does it mean to genuflect?
Genuflecting is bending the knee out of respect. We genuflect before entering the pews to show our respect for Jesus in the Tabernacle.
Why do I have to kneel during Mass?
We kneel to express our reverence and adoration for Jesus Christ, who is present in the Eucharist. Kneeling also symbolizes submission to Christ, humility, and a spirit of repentance. Feel free to sit if you are physically unable to kneel.
What is Papal authority?
The doctrine of papal supremacy was proclaimed at the First Vatican Council. The Pope's authority is based on his role as the Vicar of Christ, the pastor of the Catholic Church, and the visible source of the unity of the faithful. The Catholic Church also teaches that the Pope is the new Eliakim, a figure in the Old Testament who managed the royal court and state affairs.
It is also important to recall that Jesus Christ did not leave us with the Bible. The Bible was compiled by the Council of Rome in 382 AD by Catholic saints. This means that Christianity existed for over 300 years without the Bible, on tradition alone. He left us with a church, the Catholic Church, and gave Her the authority to guide His people until His Second Coming.
Where is the papacy in the Bible?
Matthew 16:13-20 Matthew 18:15-18 Matthew 28:18-20 John 21:15-19 1 Peter 5:1-4 Matthew 14:23-27 Matthew 24:45-51
Fun Fact: St. Peter the Apostle was the 1st Pope!
What are the Sacraments?
Baptism, The Eucharist, Confirmation, Reconciliation, Anointing of the Sick, Holy Orders, and Marriage.
What is reconciliation?
Reconciliation, also known as the Sacrament of Penance or Confession, is a Catholic sacrament in which a person confesses their sins to a priest and receives absolution. The sacrament is intended to: Heal the soul, restore a person's relationship with God, repair the harm caused by sin, and re-establish habits befitting a disciple of Christ.
Why do Catholics have to get their sins absolved by a priest?
Catholics believe that Jesus granted his apostles the authority to forgive sins, which is why they confess their sins to a priest to receive absolution, as the priest acts as a representative of Christ, signifying that forgiveness comes from God through the Church and not solely from the individual.
Where is confession in the Bible?
James 5:16, Matthew 3:6, Nehemiah 9, 1 John 1:9, John 20:23
I want to learn more about the Catholic faith.
If you are interested in learning more about Catholicism, we highly recommend you check out Ascension Presents on YouTube (@AscensionPresents). Any and all questions about the faith can be answered in the Catechism of the Catholic Church. https://www.usccb.org/sites/default/files/flipbooks/catechism/