What time should I arrive?
Please arrive to Chandler Hill Vineyards by 5 PM. The ceremony will begin promptly at 5:30 PM.
When should I RSVP by?
Please RSVP by June, 2026. This will help us finalize all the details and ensure everyone has an amazing experience on our special day. We kindly ask that you respond by this date so we can plan accordingly!
Where is the Ceremony and Reception taking place?
The ceremony and reception are taking place at Chandler Hill Vineyards. The address is as follows: 596 Defiance Rd, Defiance, MO 63341
Are children invited?
We love your little ones, we really do! However, we respectfully request no little ones on this night. We hope you take this as an opportunity to enjoy a fun date night!
Is the wedding outside?
Yes! The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will be all outdoor. Dinner will be held indoors.
Can I bring a plus 1?
Due to limited capacity, we are only able to accommodate those formally invited. If you received a plus one, it will be addressed on your invitation and RSVP section of the website.
Dress Code?
We would love to see our family and friends dressed up with us! We kindly request a formal dress code for our wedding. For men, this means suits or button-down shirts with dress pants. For women, long dresses, elegant cocktail dresses, or dressy jumpsuits are perfect. Please feel free to wear any color you like—just no white.
(The wedding party will be dressed in shades of the purple family, with bridesmaids in lilac, the flower girl in champagne, and the men in light grey.)
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
We kindly ask that guests refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony, as we’ll be having an unplugged ceremony to allow everyone to be fully present in the moment. Our professional photographer will be capturing all the special memories for us to share later!
Coming in for the wedding and need a place to stay nearby?
•. Sleep Inn & Suites O’Fallon (15–20 min) - $. https://www.choicehotels.com/missouri/o-fallon/sleep-inn-hotels/mo370 • Drury Plaza Chesterfield (20–25 min) - $$. https://www.druryhotels.com/bookandstay/chooserateandroom • The Wildwood Hotel (30 min) - $$$. https://www.thewildwoodhotel.com/
Will there be a open or cash bar?
Open bar! Please come enjoy and celebrate with us as we begin on our journey!
Can I park overnight?
Yes, overnight parking is allowed! We understand the importance of ensuring everyone gets home safely. Guests can leave their vehicles overnight and can pick them up the following day.
Dietary Restrictions?
Please contact Jamie Hernandez at (314) 952-9554 and we will plan accordingly!