The dress code is “formal attire preferred,” so suits, tuxedos, long dresses/gowns, and formal cocktail dresses are all great choices. We suggest wearing layers because our ceremony will be outside, and it may be chilly in November!

All of the events will take place at The Thayer Hotel. Our ceremony will start promptly at 4pm, with cocktail hour from 5-6pm, and then the reception from 6-10pm. There will also be an after party at the rooftop bar! On Sunday morning, if you choose to stay over, there will be a farewell breakfast at The Thayer Hotel.

VIP Access to West Point: You do not need a special pass or permissions to visit the Thayer Hotel. The only thing that is required at the Thayer Gate entrance is a valid US-issued ID. A valid driver’s license or passport are the two most commonly used ID.