Because we view everyone attending as part of our wedding, not merely guests, we are requesting everyone join our bridal party in wearing black. We also understand that because the wedding will be outdoors in June, want everyone to be comfortable and true to their own personal style. For men, a white shirt with black suit/slacks (or similar) is perfectly fine. For women, a black dress, pantsuit or jumpsuit is great. If you choose to incorporate some colorful details - that is your choice. But we request that the overall look is mostly black.

We will be offering complimentary valet service on the night of the wedding. Cost of the valet is covered but feel free to tip the staff. For valet service, pull up to the front door in our driveway. Additionally, Nichols Hills does not allow vehicles to be left on the street overnight and the valet lots will need to be empty for the church's Sunday service. If you are planning to drive to the wedding and Uber home, we recommend taking an Uber round trip.

We want each of you to have a great time and because we love you, your safety is our priority. We highly encourage using Uber, Lyft or other ride share services if you plan on drinking. Each of these services can be scheduled in advance through the app.

Whether you are coming from out of state or live in the area but would like to be closer, we have reserved a block of rooms at the Lively Hotel at The Oak. We will also be staying at the Lively after the wedding and will meet you by the pool the day after for brunch & fun.