At Cathedral of the Incarnation, you may park in the the upper and lower lots behind the church. At Holy Family, you may park in the lot in front of the parish hall where our reception will be held. Please do not leave your vehicle parked overnight.

In solemnity of the occasion, we ask that our guests dress in modest, formal attire for the Catholic mass.

Please aim for 10-15 minutes before Mass starts to find a seat, quiet yourself, and reflect. Please refrain from bringing food or drink inside the church. Follow the lead of the congregation by standing, kneeling, and sitting at appropriate times. Catholics receiving Holy Communion should fast from food and drink (except water and medicine) for at least one hour before receiving. Only Catholics who are in a state of grace and have fasted may receive Holy Communion. Before leaving, please clean up the pew you are in of any programs and tissues and if willing, please say a prayer for us! Thank you!

We are so blessed to have so many close friends and family who want to celebrate with us. However, we cannot accommodate everyone. If you have a plus one, it will be indicated when RSVP-ing. As much as we love children, we kindly request to keep the event adults only, unless indicated in your RSVP. Exceptions made for breastfeeding babies under 1 year of age, but we encourage you to enjoy an adult-only evening. Thank you and we look forward to celebrating with you!

Please RSVP on this website by December 6th. We need to give our vendors a headcount for seating and meals. Thank you!