Martha & Alfredo

July 5, 2025 • Temecula, CA
44 Days To Go!

Martha & Alfredo

July 5, 2025 • Temecula, CA
44 Days To Go!
The Girlfriend Proposal. Alfredo guided me by telephone to meet him at the end of Manhattan Beach Pier where I found him standing as tall and handsome as ever, proudly holding a sign with checkboxes that read yes, no or maybe (in Spanish) asking me to be his girlfriend (see the paint & brush below).

May 03, 2013

The Girlfriend Proposal. Alfredo guided me by telephone to meet him at the end of Manhattan Beach Pier where I found him standing as tall and handsome as ever, proudly holding a sign with checkboxes that read yes, no or maybe (in Spanish) asking me to be his girlfriend (see the paint & brush below).
The Girlfriend Proposal Continues. With the help of my dear friend, then Phi Sigma Sigma sorority sister (My Lil), he invited my friends and his to join us at our favorite stomping grounds in Manhattan Beach called Baja Sharzees and created an opportunity for the two circles to meet and celebrate our unity (no pictures taken). The moment was as romantic as ever.

May 03, 2013

The Girlfriend Proposal Continues. With the help of my dear friend, then Phi Sigma Sigma sorority sister (My Lil), he invited my friends and his to join us at our favorite stomping grounds in Manhattan Beach called Baja Sharzees and created an opportunity for the two circles to meet and celebrate our unity (no pictures taken). The moment was as romantic as ever.
My early introduction to Southern California's wine country. A picture perfect moment at South Coast Winery on one of the first few times he introduced me to wine tasting in Temecula.

August 13, 2013

My early introduction to Southern California's wine country. A picture perfect moment at South Coast Winery on one of the first few times he introduced me to wine tasting in Temecula.
Something told me I'd be his forever plus one.

August 24, 2013

Something told me I'd be his forever plus one.
Ringing in the first of many years together and a lifetime to go.

January 01, 2014

Ringing in the first of many years together and a lifetime to go.
Big Bear. One of our most frequent vacation destinations during the early years of our relationship.

January 11, 2014

Big Bear. One of our most frequent vacation destinations during the early years of our relationship.
His first birthday with me. I surprised him with a trip to the happiest place on earth and an overnight stay at Paradise Pier Hotel now called Pixar Place Hotel (fun fact: he still has the complementary pen).

January 14, 2014

His first birthday with me. I surprised him with a trip to the happiest place on earth and an overnight stay at Paradise Pier Hotel now called Pixar Place Hotel (fun fact: he still has the complementary pen).
A defining moment. 6-months into our relationship we invested in a timeshare in exchange for this 7-Day roundtrip trip to Hawaii.

September 08, 2014

A defining moment. 6-months into our relationship we invested in a timeshare in exchange for this 7-Day roundtrip trip to Hawaii.
Our first trip to San Francisco at Oracle Park. Little did we know it would be the first of many matchups we'd get to see. Nor that a career move of a lifetime would bring us back to The City where he would one day propose in marriage.

September 28, 2015

Our first trip to San Francisco at Oracle Park. Little did we know it would be the first of many matchups we'd get to see. Nor that a career move of a lifetime would bring us back to The City where he would one day propose in marriage.
Los Cabos San Lucas, Baja California. Yet another timeshare perk.

February 16, 2016

Los Cabos San Lucas, Baja California. Yet another timeshare perk.
Cancun Mexico at XPlor. One of our most memorable trips.

May 04, 2016

Cancun Mexico at XPlor. One of our most memorable trips.
Chichén Itzá, Mexico.

May 05, 2016

Chichén Itzá, Mexico.
Puerto Rico.

November 07, 2016

Puerto Rico.
New Years Eve at Baja Sharkeez, Hermosa Beach.

December 31, 2016

New Years Eve at Baja Sharkeez, Hermosa Beach.
Rosarito, Baja California, for my birthday.

April 30, 2017

Rosarito, Baja California, for my birthday.
Our first game at Dodger stadium.

July 30, 2017

Our first game at Dodger stadium.
Dorothy and the Scarecrow from The Wizard of Oz.

November 03, 2017

Dorothy and the Scarecrow from The Wizard of Oz.
Ringing in another new year.

December 31, 2017

Ringing in another new year.
Camping at Cachuma Lake.

April 15, 2018

Camping at Cachuma Lake.
The Flower Fields in Carlsbad, Ca.

April 30, 2018

The Flower Fields in Carlsbad, Ca.
Miami, Florida. Birthday getaway.

May 05, 2018

Miami, Florida. Birthday getaway.
Potato Chip Rock Trailhead (Mount Woodson). Poway, Ca.

December 16, 2018

Potato Chip Rock Trailhead (Mount Woodson). Poway, Ca.
Crypto.com Arena (formerly STAPLES Center).

February 28, 2019

Crypto.com Arena (formerly STAPLES Center).
Snow Summit. Big Bear, Ca.

March 07, 2019

Snow Summit. Big Bear, Ca.
Seven Magic Mountains. Las Vegas Nevada.

September 13, 2019

Seven Magic Mountains. Las Vegas Nevada.
Mana Concert. The Forum. Inglewood, Ca.

September 22, 2019

Mana Concert. The Forum. Inglewood, Ca.
Fallbrook, Ca. A themed turning of age birthday celebration.

September 28, 2019

Fallbrook, Ca. A themed turning of age birthday celebration.
UFC 246. Connor McGregor vs Donald Cerrone. The fight was over in 40 seconds. Las Vegas, Nevada.

January 18, 2020

UFC 246. Connor McGregor vs Donald Cerrone. The fight was over in 40 seconds. Las Vegas, Nevada.
Nido's BackYard. Oakland, Ca. a couple of months after we moved to the East Bay.

June 13, 2021

Nido's BackYard. Oakland, Ca. a couple of months after we moved to the East Bay.
On the Ferry. In the background The Bay Bridge, SF, Ca. on the way to see the Dodgers play the Giants at Oracle Park.

October 14, 2021

On the Ferry. In the background The Bay Bridge, SF, Ca. on the way to see the Dodgers play the Giants at Oracle Park.
Riverwalk District in Reno, Ca.

October 30, 2021

Riverwalk District in Reno, Ca.
The Gum Wall. Seattle, Wa. Our roadtrip in the Pacific Northwest.

May 03, 2022

The Gum Wall. Seattle, Wa. Our roadtrip in the Pacific Northwest.
Capilano suspension bridge park. Vancouver, Canada.

May 04, 2022

Capilano suspension bridge park. Vancouver, Canada.
Los Angeles County Museum of Art (LACMA).

November 20, 2022

Los Angeles County Museum of Art (LACMA).
Fentons. Oakland, Ca. This ice cream shop is located not to far Pixar Animation Studios and was featured in one of our all time favorite Pixar films, UP.

July 17, 2022

Fentons. Oakland, Ca. This ice cream shop is located not to far Pixar Animation Studios and was featured in one of our all time favorite Pixar films, UP.
The Proposal. San Francisco, Ca. with views of the East Bay Bridge in the background (visible from our Emerville apartment rooftop; the bridge was symbolic to our new beginning in the Bay Area). 

I had absolutely no clue it was coming, until it was here. I was completely in shock. I later found out through close friends that he had the ring since the start of the year...and was waiting for the right time to do it. Not pictured, we had two dear friends visiting, actually three if you count the baby that was brewing, who helped coordinate the night and capture the moment, quite beautifully as I might add.  Restaurant goers at the patio who witnessed the proposal cheered and applauded and our waiter greeted us with a champagne toast as we returned to our table for dinner at EPIC Steak.

May 07, 2023

The Proposal. San Francisco, Ca. with views of the East Bay Bridge in the background (visible from our Emerville apartment rooftop; the bridge was symbolic to our new beginning in the Bay Area). I had absolutely no clue it was coming, until it was here. I was completely in shock. I later found out through close friends that he had the ring since the start of the year...and was waiting for the right time to do it. Not pictured, we had two dear friends visiting, actually three if you count the baby that was brewing, who helped coordinate the night and capture the moment, quite beautifully as I might add. Restaurant goers at the patio who witnessed the proposal cheered and applauded and our waiter greeted us with a champagne toast as we returned to our table for dinner at EPIC Steak.
Tower Bridge. London, UK.

October 17, 2023

Tower Bridge. London, UK.
On our way to House of Prime Rib. San Francisco, Ca.

January 17, 2024

On our way to House of Prime Rib. San Francisco, Ca.
Last Day at our studio apartment. Emeryville, Ca.

May 03, 2024

Last Day at our studio apartment. Emeryville, Ca.
City Hall. San Francisco, Ca.

February 06, 2025

City Hall. San Francisco, Ca.