We kindly ask you respond with either a yes or no and your final guest count by September 25th.

You can do so right here on this website! Scan the QR code that was on your invitation underneath RSVP.

Our venue's address is 121 Thornhill Lane Shelby, NC 28152. You can use this link to view the location in Google Maps: https://shorturl.at/f1CB2 Once you arrive, you'll see signage directing you down a gravel road. Take this road down to the parking. The ceremony will take place behind the barn.

Charlotte Douglas International Airport (CLT) is the best and most accessible airport.

We blocked rooms at The Hampton Inn & Suits in Shelby, NC. The address is 2001-B East Dixon Blvd, Shelby, NC 28152. The phone number is 704-487-2800. You can also reserve a room in our block using this link: Please let them know you are booking for the Lindley/Absher wedding to receive our rate.

We will not be providing transportation from the hotel to the venue for the ceremony or reception. Please have that arranged ahead of time or let us know if you need help.

Yes! There is plenty of parking for all of us.

Our afternoon ceremony will be outdoors. Cocktail hour is also outdoors under a large covered porch area. The reception will take place indoors. Guests may have to walk to the ceremony on paved pathways, but will need to step on grass briefly to take their seats. For that reason, stiletto or otherwise-thin heels are not recommended.

We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests list just to those who know us well.

We adore your little ones! However, due to limited space, we’re only able to accommodate guests over the age of 18 who are listed on the invitation. Thank you so much for understanding—we hope you enjoy a fun and relaxing night out!

We kindly ask that all guests wear earth-toned colors and dress in semi-formal or formal attire. To maintain the desired look and feel of the event, please avoid bright neon colors, white, and jeans.

We'll be serving hors d'oeuvres at cocktail hour followed by a buffet style dinner. There will be a chicken or beef option, sides and a salad as well.

There will be a bar serving beer and wine only for guests to enjoy throughout cocktail hour and the reception, however, we do recommend bringing cash to tip our amazing bartender!

The doors to the venue will open at 2:15. We recommend arriving at the ceremony venue at least 20 minutes ahead of the ceremony start time to ensure you have enough time to find a seat.

We will be doing our grand exit at 9:00 . All guests must leave following our exit.

If you would like to send us something via mail, it can be sent to the following address: 428 Goforth Rd. Kings Mountain, NC 28086

A 60-minute cocktail hour will take place on the covered porch between the ceremony and reception where you can enjoy small bites, beer, wine and lawn games. This is great opportunity to grab pictures!