Our relationship began on OkCupid in September 2015 with a simple message: "Hey!" After several days of online conversation, we arranged to meet in person at McGorey's in Massapequa Park, accompanied by friends. From our first encounter, we both recognized something special developing between us. Our communication quickly intensified, and we established a relationship.

But, like all relationships, ours had several challenges. The first one occurred soon after we became a couple. Evan's career as a house music dj required frequent travel, while Meghan remained at home teaching secondary mathematics and pursuing a Master's degree in educational administration. The physical separation created strain. In order to keep the connection strong, we had decided to pursue a business together in a new industry. It was an exciting and ambitious decision that felt like a step toward building something beautiful as a team. But with the added stress and pressures of the business, coupled with the strain of Evan’s continued traveling, it became clear that we needed to take a step back and focus on ourselves.

The two years we spent apart proved to be a transformative period for both of us. We both devoted time for personal reflection and self-discovery, gaining valuable insights about ourselves and our needs in a relationship. Each of us learned valuable lessons that we would later apply to our lives and our relationship, and which ultimately brought us back together. When we reconnected, it wasn’t a reunion; it was a second chance—a fresh start built on the lessons we had learned, the strength we had gained, and the undeniable bond we shared. We also realized that we needed a change—one that would allow us to focus on each other and build a life without the distractions that had once driven us apart.

That’s when we decided to leave New York behind and start fresh in Florida. The move wasn’t just a physical change—it was a symbolic one. It represented a fresh start and a commitment to rebuilding our lives, free from the pressures of the past. Florida provided us with the space to reconnect, rebuild, and dream together again while building our business again.

Today, we’re proud of how far we’ve come. The tough times and heartaches we've experienced have strengthened our relationship. We've come to understand that love requires navigating both joyful and difficult moments, making compromises and sacrifices, and choosing each other again and again.

We’re not perfect, but we’re perfect for each other. And that’s what makes us ready to say “I do” and begin the rest of our lives together.

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