Carmen's Banquet Centre

Wedding Day

Ceremony-Carmen’s 

Wedding party pictures @ Dundurn Castle

Carmens 

Open bar and hors d’oeurves

Reception

Dance

Brian & Melissa’s 

After party

Venue 

Our wedding is a semi-formal event, best described as suits and/or tie and cocktail/party dresses.   Thank you.

Our Wedding

So we met over 17 years ago at the corner store, Hills grocery and gas. Haha. I used to pump gas there. I was working there and he would come around to get gas and we started chit chatting, he got a part time job there also and the chit chats became “hanging out” as friends. We were friends for a while and he would take our two older boys (mine at the time-single mom) on little adventures to different activities going on, trying to win my heart I guess, lol, kids became closer to him. I didn’t think things would work out between us as he was younger than me (which I didn’t know at first) and he liked to party and drink quite a bit. I didn’t feel that was any kind of lifestyle for me or the boys so we kind of went out different ways for a while, both seeing other people trying to move past it (me) and apparently that didn’t work. We started seeing each other at different parties, bars, on the road and such and we eventually started hanging out again. My Auntie Cath told me to go for it, she said come on Melis, go for it, “he’s the one”. I was still unsure so I talked to Petey; funny thing, when we first met, I didn’t even know his right name, all I heard was Petey, Pistol, Brian, I finally asked him, what’s your name anyway? He said Brian but everyone calls him Petey or Pistol too. Ok than, I called him Petey. Anyhow, we talked and I told him that I liked “hanging out” but wasn’t sure if it was ok, as you are younger than me, drink too much, party and leave for days and we don’t see you. Wasn’t right to my boys. I told him I was a package deal and if this was something he wanted than things would need to change. Guess we were it, he moved in. Haha We kept our relationship under wraps for a while and two years later we had a baby boy of our own, Petey’s bff, Eric. Times were tough at times and jobs came and went, blended family issues, relationship issues and such but we kept moving forward. Eventually came better jobs, better home, nicer vehicles. Life was becoming great and we were comfortable. We never thought either of us would get married and didn’t really talk about it either. When I had a stroke in 2018 it made me look at life quite differently, I was one of the lucky ones to survive and was so certain this family was my whole life, my little family with all of our boys. I started thinking….I want all of it. I want to be married and continue living our best lives. I still didn’t think I was ever going to get it until Petey surprised me on Christmas Day. After all gifts had been opened and we were ready to pack it all up. He says “ wait I have one more gift”, comes out with a little box and hands it to me. My first thought, earrings….I opened the little cute box and it was a ring, I was shocked cause it was a nice big ring (lol), I waited and didn’t say anything as he’s given me little boxes before and those were just “I got you this, family ring and a promise ring. I didn’t say anything and just stood there, Eric says, “say something”……and in the most nervous voice I’ve ever heard from Petey was “will you marry me?” I cried…..and said yes!!!  What made it even better was that it was just me, him and all of our boys at that moment, they were just as happy as I was. And I absolutely love that he picked the ring himself and asked my dad for his blessing. What a gentleman. So my Auntie was right…he’s the one 💕

Our Story

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My little sister, my first very best friend for life. I’m so glad she’ll be right by my side for one of the best days of my life. 💕

Candace Jamieson-Barr

My Chicky, met years ago as coworkers and been going strong since. We’ve picked up right where we left off. 💕

Tanya Thomas

Ride or die since I came back here, we met on the ships while I worked with my dad. She had my back even when she didn’t know me yet. She has a great sense of humour and always  makes me laugh. 💕

Liza Hill

So we also met at Hills grocery, part of the OG team. Haha. Friendships were made and have continued on. She would be there for me in a heartbeat if I needed her to, as I would be for her.  💕

Susan Hess

My goodness, I’ve known this lady since I was about 14/15 years old. We’re only 1 year age difference and we’ve been through quite a bit together. She was married into the family but has since moved on, we still think of her as family and my dear friend. 💕

Andrea Henhawk

So I’ve known this lovely lady since she was just a little girl when I met her uncle Petey, it’s been an honour watching her grow up and become such an independent, strong, single mommy to Carson. This lady has the best personality and I’ve grown to love her as my niece,  and I love that her and Carson call me Aunt Melissa. Thank you Channy 💕. 

Chantel VanEvery

Candace and I gained a little sister.  We all grew up pretty close to each other, our mom's were sisters. When our Auntie Cath became an angel, she left us with a little piece of her,  our Jessie J. 💕

Jessica Henhawk

Josh VanEvery

Brandon VanEvery

Barry Hill 

Neil Henhawk

Well here he is, our baby boy. One of his favourite lines "well technically I am the only child" and boy is he treated as such.  Haha.  He has a great heart and is bound and determined to make it in the racing life. We love you son. 

Eric VanEvery

Brodey Hill

Chase Hess 

I've had the pleasure of watching this little one growing up. Our niece. 💕💕

Zoey Vanevery

What can I say, she says the craziest things sometimes, gotta love her. Thank you for being our flower girl Toots. 💕

Khloe Martin

Chantel’s baby boy, can’t wait to see this little man all dressed up on our big day. 💕😊

Carson 

Our eldest, handsome, smart, hard working, great mannerism and a social butterfly.  Everyone knows “Rookie” and as the saying goes “oh, you’re Rookies mom?” Haha, yep that’s me. 💕

Tyler Miller

Our middle child, genuine heart and soul. Will give you the shirt off his back if you needed it. Hard worker, great sense of humour and knows when to walk away when necessary. He does us proud. 💕

Austin jamieson

Wedding Party

Attending our wedding will include ceremony, and reception with a full course meal, appetizers, and bar. Live band and dance to follow.

Shuttle bus booked for after reception/dance as (DD) designated driver at 1am, drop off at Melissa & Petey's, 610 Mohawk Rd. Shuttle bus accommodates up to 45 passengers.

Q + A

Shuttle bus booked for after reception/dance as (DD) designated driver at 1am, drop off at Melissa &amp; Petey's, 610 Mohawk Rd. Shuttle bus accommodates up to 45 passengers.

4 rooms have been blocked off at the hotel for September 24, 2022 date. Please advise front desk of Melissa and Brian's wedding to receive discount at Carmens hotel. Or contact me or Petey to send guest hotel confirmation email to book your room at Carmen’s.  Otherwise, please call these other hotels listed below for any accommodations you may need.

Near Mohawk CollegeMake yourself at home in one of the 136 guestrooms featuring refrigerators and microwaves. Wired and wireless Internet access is complimentary, while 32-inch flat-screen televisions with pay movies provide entertainment. Partially open bathrooms with shower/tub combinations feature complimentary toiletries and hair dryers. Conveniences include phones, as well as desks and coffee/tea makers.When you stay at Courtyard by Marriott Hamilton in Hamilton, you'll be in the business district, within a 15-minute drive of FirstOntario Centre and Mohawk College.  This hotel is 9 mi (14.4 km) from McMaster University and 8.7 mi (14 km) from Hamilton Convention Centre.Distances are displayed to the nearest 0.1 mile and kilometer.  Lazermania - 1.4 km / 0.9 mi  Mohawk College - 3.5 km / 2.2 mi  Chedoke Falls - 4.5 km / 2.8 mi  Cameron Speedway & Amusements - 5.1 km / 3.1 mi  St. Paul's Presbyterian Church - 5.3 km / 3.3 mi  Central Presbyterian Church - 5.3 km / 3.3 mi  Whitehern Historic House & Garden National Historic Site - 5.4 km / 3.4 mi  Carisma Pentecostal Church - 5.4 km / 3.4 mi  Zoetic Theatre - 5.5 km / 3.4 mi  Willow Valley Golf Course - 5.7 km / 3.6 mi  Theatre Aquarius - 6 km / 3.8 mi  Juravinksi Hospital and Cancer Center - 6.1 km / 3.8 mi  Workers Arts and Heritage Centre - 6.8 km / 4.2 mi  Southern Pines Golf & Country Club - 7 km / 4.4 mi  Bayfront Park - 7.4 km / 4.6 mi  The nearest airports are:John C. Munro Hamilton Intl. Airport (YHM) - 18.3 km / 11.3 mi Kitchener, ON (YKF-Region of Waterloo Intl.) - 59.9 km / 37.2 mi The preferred airport for Courtyard by Marriott Hamilton is John C. Munro Hamilton Intl. Airport (YHM). Be sure to enjoy recreational amenities including an indoor pool and a fitness center. This hotel also features complimentary wireless Internet access, gift shops/newsstands, and a fireplace in the lobby.Featured amenities include a 24-hour business center, express check-out, and complimentary newspapers in the lobby. Planning an event in Hamilton? This hotel has facilities measuring 46748 square feet (4343 square meters), including conference space. Free self parking is available onsite.Enjoy a meal at Courtyard Cafe or snacks in the hotel's coffee shop/café. Quench your thirst with your favorite drink at the bar/lounge. Full breakfasts are served on weekends from 7:00 AM to 11:00 AM for a fee.

Courtyard by Marriott Hamilton

Near FirstOntario CentreMake yourself at home in one of the 182 air-conditioned rooms featuring kitchens with full-sized refrigerators/freezers and stovetops. Wired and wireless Internet access is complimentary, and flat-screen televisions with premium TV channels provide entertainment. Conveniences include complimentary weekday newspapers and microwaves, and housekeeping is provided daily.With a stay at Homewood Suites by Hilton Hamilton, Ontario, Canada, you'll be centrally located in Hamilton, within a 5-minute walk of FirstOntario Centre and Hamilton Convention Centre.  This hotel is 3.4 mi (5.5 km) from McMaster University and 2.4 mi (3.9 km) from Mohawk College.Distances are displayed to the nearest 0.1 mile and kilometer.  Hamilton City Hall - 0.2 km / 0.1 mi  Art Gallery of Hamilton - 0.2 km / 0.1 mi  FirstOntario Centre - 0.3 km / 0.2 mi  Hamilton Convention Centre - 0.3 km / 0.2 mi  Hamilton Place Theatre - 0.4 km / 0.2 mi  Whitehern Historic House & Garden National Historic Site - 0.4 km / 0.3 mi  St. Paul's Presbyterian Church - 0.6 km / 0.4 mi  Central Presbyterian Church - 0.9 km / 0.6 mi  Theatre Aquarius - 1.2 km / 0.8 mi  Workers Arts and Heritage Centre - 1.3 km / 0.8 mi  Cathedral Basilica of Christ the King - 1.6 km / 1 mi  Bayfront Park - 1.7 km / 1 mi  Carisma Pentecostal Church - 1.7 km / 1 mi  Pier 4 Park - 2 km / 1.2 mi  Dundurn Castle - 2.2 km / 1.4 mi  The nearest airports are:John C. Munro Hamilton Intl. Airport (YHM) - 15.2 km / 9.5 mi Kitchener, ON (YKF-Region of Waterloo Intl.) - 59.7 km / 37.1 mi Make use of convenient amenities such as complimentary wireless Internet access, gift shops/newsstands, and tour/ticket assistance.Featured amenities include complimentary wired Internet access, a 24-hour business center, and dry cleaning/laundry services. Planning an event in Hamilton? This hotel features 10000 square feet (929 square meters) of event facilities. Self parking (subject to charges) is available onsite.Grab a bite from the snack bar/deli serving guests of Homewood Suites by Hilton Hamilton, Ontario, Canada. Mingle with other guests at the complimentary reception, held on select days. For your convenience, a complimentary breakfast is served daily from 7:00 AM to 10:00 AM.

Homewood Suites by Hilton Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

Travel

Attention!!!!!  Could we have all family members meet at: Sam Lawrence Park at 3pm for family photos please.   Any and all guests are welcome to join,but with limited space for parking. (Carpool) Family and guests to return back to Carmen’s for 4:30 when bar opens and appetizers at 5pm.   Thank you 😊

Sam Lawrence Park 

********3:30-5:30pm********  Photo Location has been changed due to permit and availability issues.

Past Event-Buck & Doe

Thank you to all who all made this event a success!!!Much appreciated. June 18,2022. The Gathering Place by the Grand, Chiefswood Rd, Ohsweken. Doors open @ 7pm-1pm. Featuring Big Joe Blues Band. Raffles, 50/50 and more!!

Melissa & Brian

Melissa & Brian

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