Rusty Nail

Welcome Party

Congress Hall

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Cocktail Hour and Reception

After Party

Post Wedding Brunch

Our Wedding

The story of us was love at first swipe! There was something about Jack's Hinge profile, specifically a picture of him in a Hawaiian shirt, rocking a mustache that made Nat giggle. For Jack, worried that his picture in the Hawaiian shirt and mustache might send the wrong impression, and not wanting to let someone as beautiful as Nat slip away, opted for the high percentage play: tell Nat her puppy was cute. Hook, line, and sinker. After a few days of casual texting, Jack very politely asked Nat out to dinner. He confidently expressed "I want to take you out, I know we would have a good time". Nat promptly cancelled already established plans with her coworkers at the time to let Jack take her out to dinner. There were only a few hiccups on the way to the restaurant! Nat, being a very timely person was actually really late....all because her new puppy, Maisey, was refusing to use the bathroom. Finally, when Nat arrived to the restaurant she told the hostess that she was meeting someone on a date. The hostess said "I know exactly who!" and walked Nat over to a table where she was greeted by a middle aged, balding man. The panic was sinking in as she thought "Was I catfished?" only to see Jack out of the corner of her eye stand up from a table across the room with a warm smile and gentle wave. He immediately made her feel safe and calm. We hit it off instantly, so much so that we never even ordered dinner on the first date! We could talk forever, sharing stories, laughs, and discovering how much we had in common. Before we knew it, we were exchanging messages and trying to make plans to see each other every weekend. Jack would treat Nat to home-cooked Italian dinners, courtesy of Jack's Mom's recipes, and Nat would teach Jack how to make pierogis. Getting to know each other and integrate our lives together felt easy and natural. It is still a mystery if Jack fell in love with Maisey or Nat first, but either way we are so happy a simple Hinge date could lead to this to this amazing journey together!

How we met 

Our Story

Engagement Photos

Laura Ochalski-Maid of Honor/Mother of the BrideSarah Middough-BridesmaidCarol Middough-BridesmaidJessica Jacko-BridesmaidClaire Speranza-Bridesmaid Matt Middough-Best ManLiam Curtis-GroomsmanAlex Ochalski-GroomsmanDevin McDuffie-GroomsmanHenry Hart-GroomsmanMatt Norchi-Groomsman

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Q + A

In an iconic setting along Cape May's famous beachfront, Congress Hall is a true American classic; relaxed yet elegant, luxurious yet fun. We have a block of rooms reserved at Congress Hall. Please call to book and let them know you are booking for the Ochalski/Middough wedding.

The Star is a classic Cape May beach inn and boutique motel, lovingly restored to provide an ideal blend of nostalgia, fresh seashore design and modern comfort. Bright, sunny and filled with unexpected touches, it’s the perfect reimagining of a much-loved Cape May beach vacation. The Star Inn is located directly across the street from Congress Hall.

The Star

A unique condominium hotel perched right by the beach.Featuring one and two-bedroom condominium suites, the Sandpiper is the ideal blend of contemporary style, convenience and beach house charm—with all the amenities of a full-scale resort.

Sandpiper Beach Club

The Beach Shack is a fresh take on the classic shore vacation—all just a stone's throw away from Cape May's historic downtown.

Beach Shack

Travel

Natalia and her family have been going to Cape May ever since she was little. Not long after Natalia and Jack began dating did they start going down every summer making their own traditions and memories. Below are some of Natalia and Jack's all time favorite things to do and places to eat while they spend time in Cape May. They hope that you will take the weekend to enjoy some of their favorite places to make your own special memories!

Food

Delicious morning breakfast sandwiches and jersey bagels

Bagel Time Cafe

A farm to table bakery in West Cape May

Beach Plum Bakery & Cafe

Delicious Breakfast, located within Congress Hall

The Blue Pig Tavern

Any kind of amazing food that you could possibly imagine.

Bella Vida Garden Cafe

Kegs and Eggs located on a beachfront patio! Ask for Shane!

Barefoot Bar & Restaurant

Coffee, sandwiches and more!

Golden Stop

Start the morning with Mad Batter's famous breakfasts and come back for lunch and dinner! Dine on the﻿ front porch, in our skylit dining room, or in our garden terrace.&nbsp;

The Mad Batter Restaurant & Bar

Coffee

Up to 8 specialty coffees brewed daily. Cash or venmo only.

Coffee Tyme At The Mall

Located right across the street from Congress Hall. You won't be disappointed with their morning beverages!

Magic Brain Cafe

Located within Congress Hall. Tommy’s Folly Coffee Shop is filled with everything you need to keep you going all day long.

Tommy's Folly Café

Cape May Beach Treats 

While in Cape May, trying the Original Fudge Kitchen is an ABSOLUTE must!

The Original Fudge Kitchen

Savor the finest ice cream sandwiches

Peace Pie

Our favorite Cape May Activities

The Washington Street Mall is Cape May’s picturesque town square lined with unique shopping, dining, and more.

Washington Street Mall

Explore Cape May Lighthouse and Sunset Beach. Observe The USS Atlantus: the most famous of the twelve concrete ships that ran aground at Sunset Beach in 1926.

Cape May Lighthouse

Enjoy Cape May's beautiful beaches

Beach

A beautiful yoga studio with peaceful classes offered right in center of Cape May.

Cape May Yoga

Pamper yourself with a massage or facial. You can't go wrong with any of the Sea Spa offerings!

Sea Spa at Congress Hall

In 2011, Cape May Brewing Co. helped put New Jersey on the map for craft beer, and has offered refreshing brews as one of the largest and most acclaimed craft breweries in the region ever since.

Cape May Brewing Co. Tasting Room & Brewtique

Home to the oldest roots in the county, Cape May Winery is a staple of Exit 0.&nbsp;

Cape May Winery & Vineyard

Cape May National Golf Club is one of the most natural golf courses ever built. Nicknamed "The Natural," the course surrounds a fifty acre private bird sanctuary.&nbsp;If "real" golf isn't for you, try any of Cape May's numerous mini golf courses!

Cape May National Golf Club

The zoo features over 550 animals representing more than 250 different species. A true Cape May gem.

Natalia & Jack

Natalia & Jack

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