Please know that your presence is your gift to us! We have provided a registry because we understand that some may want to participate in this tradition, but that is by no means an obligation. We'd much rather have full attendance and no gifts than the inverse! :) Our registry can be found on Zola @ www.zola.com/registry/nathanandmarykate *Please don't forget to go back and mark the item as purchased! Thank you for your generosity!