Like so many modern love stories, Nicole and Eric’s began not in a coffee shop or through mutual friends, but on the wild and unpredictable frontier of internet dating. Both had come from long-term relationships that didn’t work out, and both had endured enough so-called “interesting” dates to fill a small novel—each with their own collection of tales about awkward conversations, oddball matches, and first dates that didn’t make it to a second. Just as they were both about to give up on the whole dating scene for good, they decided to give it one last shot on Match.com.
Eric, believing Nicole was far out of his league, took a chance and clicked the “interested” button, figuring he had nothing left to lose. Nicole, intrigued by Eric’s refreshingly honest and straightforward profile, decided to “like” him back. The texting started, and a few messages in, Nicole decided to lay it all out: “I am just going to put this out there. I have 10 dogs, a cat, 200 sheep, 5 goats, and my father lives with me. I travel a lot for work and dog trials. I am fiercely independent and self-sufficient. If you can’t handle any of that, then we shouldn’t even continue talking.” Eric’s answer? “You can’t scare me away that easy.”
That boldness was enough—they agreed to meet in person. Nicole was convinced it would be her last date, ready to spend her days happily with her dogs. Eric, too, swore this would be his final attempt, prepared to live happily ever after with his grandfather’s El Camino. On the big night, Eric was rushing to finish a side job and accidentally backed his truck into a tree. He texted Nicole to push back the meet time. After scrambling to replace his taillight, he ended up early for the rescheduled meet time and watched as Nicole pulled up in her massive Suburban. She bypassed several easy parking spots in favor of cramming into a tiny one, half the car up on the curb. Eric watched her literally roll out of the car because of the angle. When he commented, she just waved him off—“It fits fine,” she insisted.
Inside the restaurant, the world seemed to melt away as their conversation flowed effortlessly. The date was just the start of something special. A few months later, Nicole met Eric’s three children (the littles)—Logan, Max, and Zoey—who have always been his top priority. Nicole’s support for Eric’s commitment to his kids was clear from the start, and when “the littles” gave their green light, Nicole and Eric’s worlds officially merged. Soon after, they all moved in together at Beloved Storm, a farm already brimming with life and now overflowing with love. Friends and family often remark that Nicole and Eric seem to float around each other, switching easily between cooking dinner, helping with homework, and sharing stories about their day. Whether farm chores or family moments, they tackle it all as a team, never short on laughter. The love between them is unmistakable.
When it came time to propose, Eric left nothing to chance, talking over the plan and the ring with his mom and sister. Once he was ready, he asked Nicole to hop on the four-wheeler for a ride up to the back pasture, where they’d just installed new fencing and farm gates. Stopping at one gate, Eric told Nicole it looked wrong. True to form, Nicole jumped off to “fix” it, marching off to inspect the latch, clear limbs, and—of course—ignore Eric’s suggestion to pull the gate toward them. While she was focused on her task, Eric dropped to one knee. When Nicole finally turned around, she asked if he’d fallen down and then asked what he was holding. Realizing he was proposing, she said yes, laughing at the fact that if she’d just listened, she would’ve seen him on one knee right away. But Eric knew better than to interrupt an independent woman on a mission.
Their dating days were filled with moments that perfectly captured their dynamic. Like the time Nicole insisted she could move a heavy piece of furniture from the second floor herself. Eric watched quietly as she maneuvered it to the stairs, socks on, sliding on the hardwood, furniture threatening to pin her at the bottom. “Are you done being independent? Can I help now?” he finallyasked. They both burst out laughing, Nicole grateful for the help as she realized getting it down the stairs was only half the battle.
Through every twist, turn, and leap of faith, Nicole and Eric’s story is proof that sometimes, the best things happen when you’re just about ready to give up—and that a little honesty, a lot of laughter, and a willingness to try one more time can lead to a love that feels just right.