The wedding ceremony and reception will be held at The Bourne Mansion in Oakdale, NY on Saturday, August 30, 2025. Our ceremony will start promptly at 6:00 pm. Please arrive by 5:30 pm to ensure you have plenty of time to find your seat and settle in.

The dress code for our wedding is Black Tie Preferred (ex: Black Tux or Black Suit, Colorful floor length Dresses)

Yes. We have a room block at the Hyatt Regency Long Island. Please visit the "Travel" tab on our website for more information.

To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the events as soon as possible. However, the deadline is July 14th, 2025. if we do not receive your RSVP by this date, we cannot make exceptions and will have to mark 'no'. We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner, we hope you understand.

Due to limited space, we can only accommodate guests who are formally invited. if you received a plus one, they'll be specifically addressed on your invitation and when you RSVP under the RSVP tab. Otherwise, we ask that only named people in the invitation are in attendance.

As much as we love your little ones, this is an adults-only event. We kindly ask that only those listed in your RSVP attend. We appreciate you all and cannot wait to celebrate with you!

Yes, we will be providing transportation from the Hyatt Regency Long Island to the wedding and back after the reception for out-of-town guests. There will also be valet and parking for guests in town.