Most Holy Trinity Catholic Chapel 3:00 PM

Wedding Day

Wedding

West Point Club 4:30 PM

Reception

Our Wedding

Hello Family and Friends

Matt proposed to Nicole following Thanksgiving Day mass in Mary's Garden at the Basilica of the National Shrine of Immaculate Conception in Washington D.C. on November 24, 2016. In early October, Matt surprised Nicole by taking her out to pick her engagement ring – she couldn't have been more excited! It was at this time that Matt had reserved West Point's Most Holy Trinity Chapel for May 6, 2017. During a month long training exercise in October and November, Matt diligently worked to find the "right" diamond to mount on Nicole's engagement ring. Matt also called Nicole's father, COL(R) Patrick Toffler to ask for his daughter's hand in marriage – luckily COL(R) Toffler accepted Matt's request! Following the training exercise, Matt returned to Washington D.C. for the long Thanksgiving weekend to spend time with Nicole and meet more of her family. Unbeknownst to Nicole, Matt had planned the engagement day in excruciating detail with the help of Nicole's mother, Nina, and her older brother, Glenn. Most importantly, Matt had coordinated with Glenn and his wife, Maddy, to video record and take pictures of the proposal.Following his arrival into Washington D.C., Matt changed into a suit for Thanksgiving Day mass. Nicole did not understand why Matt was wearing a suit but Matt was able to convince her to dress up as well.Following mass, Matt texted Glenn letting him know that they were "on the move." As Matt walked with Nicole towards Mary's Garden, he explained the history and importance of the garden. (The location had been recommended by a close friend – Thank you Mark Dwyer!) As they approached the garden center, Matt could see Glenn and Maddy hiding in the rose bushes – everything was ready to go. Matt led Nicole to the center statue of Mary and as she focused her attention on the statue, Matt took a step back to prepare to propose. Nicole sensed Matt had left her side so she spun around and saw Matt fumbling with the ring box in his coat pocket. She was so excited she immediately hugged Matt with the biggest smile. Matt had to physically push Nicole back so he had enough space to kneel, say a few words, and ask for her hand in marriage. Meanwhile, Glenn and Maddy had repositioned themselves with the camera right next Nicole and Matt. Nicole said "Yes!"and then realized Glenn and Maddy were recording the entire proposal. Nicole could not have been happier!

Our Engagement

1 Corinthians 13:13

Faith, Hope , Love; but the greatest is Love

Our Story

Details

Matt & Nicole 

Photos

Geena Goodhand

CPT Edwin Jimenez

Nicholas Everett

Madeleine Goodhand

Joshua Talley

Eliza Toffler 

Ashley Briganti

Christopher Talley

Jacquelyn Bailey

CPT Patrick Toffler

Glenn Goodhand

Wedding Party

Registry

Q + A

Shuttle provided to and from ceremony and reception.

  Airports

John F. Kennedy International Airport

Newark Liberty International Airport

Stewart International Airport

Westchester County Airport

This motel has everything you need; and is about one mile from Thayer Gate. We have 10 rooms blocked under the Toffler/Talley Wedding.

West Point Motel

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Directions and Information

This hotel is located just before the Thayer Gate (the main gate into West Point), and is the center building for the IHG Army Hotels. We recommend this hotel over the IHG Army Hotel building 785!

IHG Army Hotel Bldg 2113

Bridal Party please stay here so that we can all be together! 😊Group Name Toffler&amp;Talley Wedding

Holiday Inn Express 

Please Make Reservation by January 20th! This hotel is within a neighborhood of West Point. You can walk to the Chapel. These rooms will accommodate your needs.

IHG Army Hotel Bldg 785

Travel

Very beautiful historic town on the Hudson River filled with antique shops, clothing stores, coffee shops, and restaurants. Approximately 30 minutes from West Point!

The historic town of Cold Springs.

If you would like to learn about the history of West Point and visit the campus, Cadet Chapel , and Trophy Point this tour is perfect!

West Point Academy tours

One of the largest Outlet Malls you will ever experience! Full of brand named stores with awesome discounts! Approximately 20 minutes from West Point!

Woodbury Commons Premium Outlets

Drive across the Bear Mountain Bridge, stay to the left, and park on the side of the road on Route 9D. It is a 2.6 mile round trip hike that is rather steep and will give you a great workout! The views of the Hudson Valley are breathtaking! Approximately 10 minutes away from West Point!

Anthony's Nose

A Beautiful golf course! Enjoy good company and friendly golf competition!

Nicole & Matthew

Nicole & Matthew

Things to Do

The historic town of Cold Springs.

West Point Academy tours

Woodbury Commons Premium Outlets

Anthony's Nose

West Point Golf Course