Joe and Jenn played in a worship band for their local church for many years together, but did not really converse. Jenn, who was going through a divorce at the time, reached out to Joe for advice and his experience in being a divorced man in the church. Joe recounted his experience in a very matter-of-fact way, and kept his answers short and direct. They checked in with each other every once in a while to update on progress.

Eventually, Jenn started to realize that Joe was quite funny, and they shared a similar sense of humor. He would make her laugh often, and she was able to delight him with her clever use of puns. Eventually, they decided to hang out; both realizing each other’s unique qualities, passion for their career and things they care about, similar interests, and a shared joy of being weird.

The rest is history.

J&J

Wedding Day