Wedding Day

St James Catholic Church

Ceremony

Whitehall House & Gardens

Reception

Rehearsal Dinner

Our Wedding

The Early DaysOlivia and I knew of each other and took a Spanish class together our sophomore year, but we never really talked until senior year, when we were two of the few seniors in a year-long art class.I was coming into my senior year thinking I didn't want to date anyone and imagined myself going into college with a clean slate and a new crowd of people. Inevitably, it seemed, Olivia did not let that happen, and I can't look backward or forward without knowing how lucky I am that it worked out the way it has.Since we saw each other every day at the same art table, Olivia and I started to get to know each other better. It was fun to grow in relationship with her and I definitely enjoyed that class more than I ever thought I would. A turning point for me was on the night of our senior dinner dance during second semester. I could forget most of what happened that night, but I couldn't forget her! I remember how I felt when I was leaving that dance after seeing Olivia and spending some time with her. I was so happy. She was beautiful, she was fun, and I knew from that night that I had a crush on her.Since I came into the year not thinking I wanted to date someone, I realized that I had really just complicated things. Talking turned into GamePigeon text games, those turned into real conversations, and soon enough, we were having awkward conversations about prom. I like to joke that Olivia cornered me as I was walking into religion class one day to ask about prom, but even if that's a little dramatic, she was the brave one who put herself out there. Who knows how many conversations about prom happened after that, but we both knew that we would love to go with the other. Even though I was too scared to ask and she received no fun promposal, she still wanted to go with me.We went to prom the week before we graduated and had a blast. It was like the night I knew I had a crush on her, except this time, she was my date! I had so much fun with her at the dance and at the party at our friend's house that I didn't want that night to end.After prom, we continued to hang out regularly and get to know each other more and more. I liked Olivia a bunch, but I was so nervous about me leaving for college that once again, I never had the courage to officially ask her out. Well once again, I thank God that Olivia had the gumption to tell me how she felt, and that her bravery gave me the courage to ask "So do you want to do this boyfriend-girlfriend thing?". Yes, I did say that. Was it the smoothest? No. But it's a fun memory that brings us joy every time we think about it.We both started college and started to figure out how to go about long distance. Many long FaceTimes, several amazing visits, and a multitude of supportive friends helped us grow in our relationship and love, and although the separation was never ideal, we learned a lot about ourselves and about the sacrifices that love entails, and we are all the better for it. Whenever we would reflect on the start of our relationship or talk about our future, prom and my lack of a true promposal seemed to come up often, and Olivia would give me a friendly reminder that she was not going to ask me to marry her and that I was on my own for that. I knew this, and I knew that she was the one, so I really wanted to deliver... The ProposalTalking with Olivia about our future always got me excited, especially when it came to engagement and marriage. For most of my senior year, I was pondering what the right time for a proposal would be. Olivia had talked about living in the same state for a little bit before getting engaged, so I eventually thought that 6-12 months after we graduated would be the best time. I took her ring shopping for our 4th anniversary in June, which was a very big help for me! I began to brainstorm proposals and pick the perfect ring in early August. I knew that I would have to use all of my creative juices to really surprise Olivia, who is prone to guessing movie endings and seeing what's coming. I found the ring and was so, so pleased, and I had an idea for the proposal on an August night while driving to her house. I was going to use my love for memory boxes and her love for going through photos of us (and her competitiveness) to create a memory box date night that would catch her completely off guard. To ensure the surprise even more, I made a whole date calendar for the month of November, and picked November 18th as the day to ask her. Sure enough, the amazing decoy dates did the trick and had her on her toes. When it came to the 18th, I was so ready. The ring had been in my room for almost 2 months and I was eager to see it on her hand. The night went perfectly! We had an amazing dinner and an even better time going through memories from the last 4 1/2 years, all leading up to the memory we made that night, when I finally got on one knee and asked Olivia to be my wife with a boldness that I had never been known to have. Even though my hands were apparently dripping with sweat, she happily said yes!I know that I still have a lot to learn in order to be the best husband I can be, but God has given us this great vocation and great joy to live out together, and I can't wait for Olivia to be my wife!

Brian's Perspective

The Early DaysI always knew of Brian in high school, but we had only spoken a handful of times until our honors art class senior year. Only four seniors decided to take the class for fun, so we got to know each other quickly. I had a little crush on him from the beginning of the year, and my feelings continued to develop with each passing month. Although it took several confusing conversations, we went to prom together and had a blast. We were inseparable during all of the senior end-of-year activities and celebrations. I still remember the thirty anxiety-ridden minutes when Brian left me on read when I asked if he wanted to get lunch together before returning our textbooks. He claims he was freaking out and trying to figure out how to respond and be cool. Over the weeks, I anticipated that Brian would address his feelings, but it seemed like he was never going to say anything. On June 12, 2019, I decided I couldn't wait any longer, so I built up the courage to say, "I don't know if you have noticed, but I like you" on the way to my house. We talked over how our decision to date would not change because he was moving 8.5 hours away from school. Then, we went inside and played UNO with my sister, Emery! Although she was told to be on her best behavior, she still asked him if he had a girlfriend. My mouth hit the floor when he looked me in the eyes and said, "Nope, not yet," because up to this point, that was the most bold he had been. After a few rounds of games, I walked him outside. Then, he asked me the most romantic words every girl wants to hear, "So, do you want to do this boyfriend-girlfriend thing?" To which I said that I would love to! We've been doing this boyfriend-girlfriend thing for 4.5 years. Trusting in God's plan for us allowed us to enjoy long distance, which is a truly a blessing. We are so excited to see what God has in store for us through marriage! The ProposalBrian made a schedule of fun dates about every weekend in November. The date on the 18th was called "Memory Box Date Night." All I knew was we were going to dinner and doing something with a memory box. Once we got to my house from dinner, he told me to go upstairs to my room because this date required some setup. He was perfectly normal all day, but I thought this was VERY suspicious. After what felt like an eternity, he told me to come downstairs. When I went down the stairs, I saw an easel with a corkboard on it with string lights surrounded by cute rose petals and lights. I thought it was immediately going to happen... It didn't. Instead, he has a Nike shoe box propped on a small table. He reached into it and pulled out practically every card I ever wrote him. Then he told me why each one was so special to him. After we did this, he decided to tell me that we were going to play a game. He printed off pictures of us from each month that we were dating. My job was to guess what month and year it was from, and one thing to know about us is that we are both competitive at games. I ended up getting 32 of the 54 pictures exactly right! When we finished the game, he said there was one more memory and pulled out a selfie he had taken of us at dinner. I was so confused how he got it, but that is another funny story. He started talking about how it was his favorite memory because it was the start of us making all sorts of new memories. Then he says he had another memory for us to make tonight. He got down on one knee and asked me to marry him!

Olivia's Perspective

Our Story

Photos

Kathryn O'Donnell

Patrick Hyland

Emery O'Donnell

David Reinhart

Michaela Reinhart

John Reinhart

Elly Neltner

Mark Reinhart

Elizabeth Yeager

Brennan Stone

Gracie King

Ben Rees

Meet Our Wedding Party

Q + A

Distance from Myriad Hotel: 15 minutes

Louisville International Airport

The Myriad Hotel, Common Bond Hotel Collection

Travel

In 1875, Churchill Downs officially opened its gates in Louisville, and began its tradition as “Home of the Kentucky Derby”. The Derby is now the longest continually running sporting event in America and is known as the most exciting two minutes in sports.Churchill Downs Racetrack conducts Thoroughbred horse racing in Louisville, Kentucky through June. Tickets and Scheduled Tours are available on the website.Tour:Tours of the legendary Churchill Downs race track are hosted by the Kentucky Derby Museum. On rare occasions the Museum closes early for private parties.&nbsp;<a href="https://www.derbymuseum.org/plan-a-visit/general-information.html" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">View more information</a>&nbsp;on the&nbsp;Derby Museum web site&nbsp;about tour options and to schedule your visit.Monday – Saturday 8:00 am, Sundays 11:00 am

Churchill Downs

Bottle your own single barrel 1 hour $149.99Different educational tastings and tours ranging in duration and price DISTILLERY HOURS&nbsp;LAST TOUR &amp; TASTING BEGINS ONE HOUR PRIOR TO CLOSEMonday: 10am-5pmTuesday: Noon-5pmWednesday: 10am-5pmThursday: 10am-7pmFriday: 10am-8pmSaturday: 10am-8pmSunday: 12:30pm-5:30pm

Angel's Envy Distillery

Bourbon tours and tastings available Monday:&nbsp;10:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m.Wednesday:&nbsp;10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m.Thursday:&nbsp;10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m.Friday:&nbsp;10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m.Saturday:&nbsp;10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m.Sunday:&nbsp;12:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Stitzel-Weller Distillery

Visit website to purchase tickets Monday - Saturday: 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM EST&nbsp;Sunday: 10:00 AM to 4:00 PM EST

Louisville Slugger Museum & Factory

Visit website to purchase tickets 10 a.m. – 5 p.m.&nbsp;(exit by 6 p.m.)*

Louisville Zoo

Things to Do

Registry

Garden Party

We understand that wedding dress codes can lead to confusion and frustration. To minimize this, <a href="https://greenweddingshoes.com/garden-party-attire-dress-code/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a> is a website that explains what garden party attire is and provides suggestions for both men and women.

Attire

Wedding Mass - St. James Catholic Church

Please park in the St. James Catholic School parking lot behind the church (outlined in red on the map) or utilize any of the street parking surrounding the church.

Reception - Whitehall House & Gardens

Parking at Whitehall will be valet. Please pull up to the entrance of the mansion for valet parking.

Olivia & Brian

Olivia & Brian

Parking

Wedding Mass - St. James Catholic Church

Reception - Whitehall House & Gardens