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Pam & Alex

October 25, 2025 • Kilfenora, County Clare, Ireland

Pam & Alex

October 25, 2025 • Kilfenora, County Clare, Ireland

Q + A

Where is the ceremony taking place?

Vaughan's Kilfenora, Main Street, Kilcarragh, Kilfenora, Co. Clare, V95 DT8K

Where is the reception taking place?

Also at Vaughan's, Main Street, Kilcarragh, Kilfenora, Co. Clare, V95 DT8K

What time should I arrive?

The ceremony is at 14.00. Please make sure you are at Vaughan's at 13.45 at the latest. The ceremony is in the converted barn to the left of the entrance to the pub.

How do I RSVP?

You RSVP on this site. Follow the RSVP link from the main menu and complete your details there. If you don't RSVP then we will assume that you aren't coming!

When should I RSVP by?

By 25th August, although if you are travelling from Scotland, or further afield, then please RSVP as soon as possible if you would like a room at Vaughan's.

Is there a dress code?

Smart casual. Kilts very welcome (any tartan). Ladies, if you wear white, the maid of honour will throw a glass of red wine on you!

Where can I stay?

Please see the accommodation page on this site. There are some rooms available at Vaughan's and other options in the nearby area.

What will the weather be like?

It's Ireland...in October...expect rain!

Are children invited?

If Pam or Alex have said to you that you can bring your kids then yes. If not, no. Please don't turn up with random children as we will contact the authorities...

Are you using a gift registry service or wish list?

We aren't. Any gifts or contributions you choose to make would of course be appreciated, however. There will be a gift post box there on the day.

Do you have the schedule for the day?

Please see the schedule of the day section of this site. Please note that it is subject to change, although the ceremony will begin at 14.00.

Will dietary restrictions be catered for?

Yes, please let us know of any restrictions when you RSVP.

Are you having an unplugged wedding?

We have hired a photographer and content creator so no recording or photos will be allowed during the ceremony. There will be many photo opportunities during the reception,

Who to contact if you still have questions?

Drop Pam or Alex a line and they will help you.