Wedding Day

Ceremony

Our Wedding

They met through a dating app in May 2013. After a few hours on the phone, they agreed to meet on the upcoming Mother's Day weekend. They went to Shimada Friendship Park at the Richmond Marina where there was talking and walking by the water. Pat took lots of pictures of Darris with the beautiful water as a back drop. Almost 10 years later as they were telling their story, Darris mentioned how flattered he was that Pat had taken so many pictures of him. It was then that Darris was told the truth. Pat had sent those pictures to her now maid of honor, Paulette, in case she went missing. In the twelve years of their relationship, there have some downs and lots of ups. They've done a lot of traveling together. Within the United States they have traveled to New York, Texas, Florida, Pennsylvania, Ohio, Georgia, Oregon and Washington. They have also traveled internationally to Mexico, Jamaica and Ghana. The day after their wedding, May 11th, they will begin their 13th year together and the first day of their married life.

Years

Our Story

Photos

Paulette Mayo

Mike Carroll

Wedding Party

General Information When and where is the wedding?The celebration will begin at eleven o'clock in the morning (PDT)2274 Reef Court, Discovery Bay, CA 94505 What time should I arrive?Please plan to arrive 30 minutes before the ceremony to ensure you're seated and ready for the celebration to begin. Is there a dress code?We kindly ask guests to dress in cocktail attire and a cultural flair would be wonderful. Most importantly, we want you to feel confident and picture-ready to make unforgettable memories with us. What will the weather be like?As the weather can be unpredictable, we encourage you to check the forecast closer to the date—we’re expecting and praying for a beautiful, sunny day! Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?Both the ceremony and reception will be outdoors on a stunning patio, with indoor seating available during the reception for your comfort. Travel &amp; Accommodations Where should I stay?For recommended accommodations, please refer to the details provided on our Travel tab. Is there a shuttle or transportation provided?At this time, transportation will not be provided, so please plan accordingly to arrange your own travel to and from the venue. Is parking available at the venue?Parking is street parking only in a residential area. Please arrive early to secure a spot, and do not block driveways or park in private driveways, as vehicles may be towed at the owner's expense. We appreciate your cooperation! RSVP &amp; Guest Details When is the RSVP deadline?Please RSVP by April 1, 2025 so we can finalize our guest count.&nbsp; Can I bring a plus-one?We kindly ask that only the guests listed on the invitation attend. If we previously discussed a plus-one, they will already be included in your invite. Thank you for understanding and helping us keep our celebration intimate! What should I do if I need to change my RSVP?If you need to update your RSVP, simply return to the app and make the change. If you need to cancel last-minute, please send a quick text message so we can plan accordingly. Gifts &amp; Registry Are you registered anywhere?Your presence is truly the greatest gift! If you would like to give a gift, we kindly ask for a contribution to our travel fund instead of traditional gifts. Your generosity will help us create unforgettable memories together! Can we bring gifts to the wedding?While we love a good toaster, we already have one (and trust us, it’s fantastic). Instead of physical gifts, we kindly ask for a monetary contribution to our travel fund—because experiences last longer than kitchen appliances!&nbsp;The most important thing we would love is you be there to celebrate with us. ﻿The Celebration What type of food will be served?We’ll be serving a delicious brunch-style menu with a variety of options to enjoy.&nbsp; Will there be dancing?Oh, absolutely! We expect the dance floor to be packed all day, so bring your best moves and be ready to party!&nbsp; Can I take pictures and post on social media?We are requesting that no cameras be present during the ceremony. Our photographer would love to see natural pictures of your beautiful faces without a phone in front of it. However, before and after the ceremony, click away and share it with the newlyweds. Is there a hashtag for the wedding?Yes, please join us and post wedding photoson Instagram and Facebookin the caption type the following:#DnPYoungEverAfter

Q + A

You can use either Oakland (OAK) or San Francisco International Airport (SFO) This hotel is at the foot of the Bay Bridge in Emeryville, four miles from Oakland and the University of CA Berkeley. Also, located across the bay from San Francisco with views of the city from some of the room. Shopping and restaurants are located 5 minutes away at Bay St. and Powell St. Shopping Centers. There is a free shuttle, Emery-Go-Round that comes every 15 minutes near the hotel and stops at the shopping area and the public transportation system. This location is approximately 40 miles from the wedding site in Discovery Bay. There is a hotel closer to the wedding site, however, further from the airport. Details will be here as soon as they're available.

Sydnor/Young Wedding

Travel

San Francisco is a tourist paradise. Ride the cable car up hills so steep they have steps. You can visit Pier 39 and view the sea lions, ride the Carousel. Take a boat to the infamous Alcatraz. Travel across the Golden Gate Bridge or take a boat tour under it. While in the Bay Area you can also visit the Redwood forest and Ocean Beach. You're 2 hours from Monterey, CA. It is known for it's spectacular natural beauty. whale watching, the Monterey Bay Aquarium and Cannery Row.

Patricia & Darris

Patricia & Darris

Wedding Party