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Patrick & Mary

May 30, 2026 • West Chester, PA

Patrick & Mary

May 30, 2026 • West Chester, PA

Our Story

We met through the Catholic Newman Center at West Chester University sometime in November, 2022. Our first conversation was at the yearly Newman Thanksgiving dinner. We sat across from each other. Mary was embarrassed because of how much Patrick was making her laugh. Clearly he planted some sort of seed.

In December, Pat walked Mary to the library one dark night. A woman this pretty should never walk alone. Later, Pat asked for Mary's number. It was a terrible and cold winter over text but somehow we made it through, and in the second week of the spring semester, we made it official.

In the early days, we enjoyed watching the Phillies and doing work together in the Newman library. We would seriously spend 4 or so hours just sitting down and talking every weekday until the summer.

Speaking of... scroll to see what we've been up to this whole time behind your back!

To much of Mary's friends dismay, Patrick asks Mary to be his girlfriend.

February 03, 2023

To much of Mary's friends dismay, Patrick asks Mary to be his girlfriend.
Patrick was so eager for Mary to meet his family. She saw them just 3 weeks after they started dating. Patrick met the Cardie family not long after at a Super Bowl party, when the Eagles lost.

February 26, 2023

Patrick was so eager for Mary to meet his family. She saw them just 3 weeks after they started dating. Patrick met the Cardie family not long after at a Super Bowl party, when the Eagles lost.
The first of many beach days. Patrick showed Mary around Sea Isle City.

April 21, 2023

The first of many beach days. Patrick showed Mary around Sea Isle City.
"I feel like that's just what we did that summer!" Mary said. We like the beach, sue us.

July 21, 2023

"I feel like that's just what we did that summer!" Mary said. We like the beach, sue us.
Our first fall barn party, hosted by the Newman Center.

October 20, 2023

Our first fall barn party, hosted by the Newman Center.
A grim 2024 Valentines date at Ash Wednesday Mass reminded the couple that to dust they shall return. Hopefully in the same urn!

February 14, 2024

A grim 2024 Valentines date at Ash Wednesday Mass reminded the couple that to dust they shall return. Hopefully in the same urn!
Guess what.... Sea Isle again! This time with the whole Joyce fam.

July 14, 2024

Guess what.... Sea Isle again! This time with the whole Joyce fam.
By some stroke of luck, Patrick is invited to the exclusive (and elusive) Cardie family getaway at St Augustine, FL.

August 19, 2024

By some stroke of luck, Patrick is invited to the exclusive (and elusive) Cardie family getaway at St Augustine, FL.
Mary + Pat log 10ish miles at "The Pinnacle and the Pulpit" near Reading, PA.

October 15, 2024

Mary + Pat log 10ish miles at "The Pinnacle and the Pulpit" near Reading, PA.
The couples first haircut exchange. Quid pro quo. Since then, Mary has been Patrick's only barberette. Also since then, Mary has been seeing someone else to cut her hair. Pat never got a second chance.

November 18, 2024

The couples first haircut exchange. Quid pro quo. Since then, Mary has been Patrick's only barberette. Also since then, Mary has been seeing someone else to cut her hair. Pat never got a second chance.
Patrick cleverly scopes out a proposal spot, bringing Mary "Oblivious" Cardie along.

December 09, 2024

Patrick cleverly scopes out a proposal spot, bringing Mary "Oblivious" Cardie along.
2 short weeks after Patrick asks Mr. Cardie at Thanksgiving, he just couldn't keep it to himself. Mary says yes.

December 13, 2024

2 short weeks after Patrick asks Mr. Cardie at Thanksgiving, he just couldn't keep it to himself. Mary says yes.
TLM for the first time together. They'll see how "enjoyable" those 3 hours are with a handful of little ones.

February 02, 2025

TLM for the first time together. They'll see how "enjoyable" those 3 hours are with a handful of little ones.
March ninth. Mary’s favorite picture ever is taken. A memorable evening out in town captured in a rooftop picture.

March 09, 2025

March ninth. Mary’s favorite picture ever is taken. A memorable evening out in town captured in a rooftop picture.
Mary’s last Newman Center Philly Formal (as a student).

May 03, 2025

Mary’s last Newman Center Philly Formal (as a student).
Dreamy engagement photos 6 months later. Patrick only wanted to do silly pictures.

May 24, 2025

Dreamy engagement photos 6 months later. Patrick only wanted to do silly pictures.
Thanks Esther!

May 24, 2025

Thanks Esther!
Patrick's sister and brother-in-law: Mary and Nick’s beautiful wedding. Lots of notes taken.

August 16, 2025

Patrick's sister and brother-in-law: Mary and Nick’s beautiful wedding. Lots of notes taken.