Silver Oaks Chateau

Rehearsal Dinner

Welcome Party

Ceremony & Reception

Ceremony

Farewell Brunch

Fall

Our Wedding

We’ve known each other for almost 20 years, having first met back in 2006 through a mutual friend. For a long time, we were just part of the same circle, staying in touch as life took us in different directions. Patti went off to college, and Mark focused on his lawn care business in St. Louis. Even with all that, we always found a way to reconnect. Years later, we both ended up back in St. Louis, and things started to shift. What began as catching up now and then soon turned into something more. One night, Mark invited Patti to a food truck event, and from that point on, we started spending more and more time together, realizing that this wasn’t just a friendship anymore—it was something special. A big moment for us was when Mark met Stella, Patti’s dog. Stella usually isn’t a fan of people, especially men, but she took to Mark right away. If Stella approved, we knew we were onto something good! From there, we’ve built a life full of love, laughter, and a lot of great memories together. Then, one unforgettable evening at Annie Gunn’s, Mark proposed with a ring that has a diamond from Patti’s grandmother, making the moment even more meaningful. Now, after all these years, we’re so excited to start the next chapter of our journey together and can’t wait to celebrate with all of you on October 11, 2025, at Silver Oaks Chateau!

The Story of Us 

Our Story

The Early Years...

This Is Us

Bickel Pickleball Club

Photos

Melissa Scourick

Kevin Bickel 

Dr. Rebecca Skiljan (Buckler) 

Adam Reiner

Kim McCarthy (Bickel) 

Chris Stark

Jessica (Jess 1) Busch 

Dan Fernandez 

Sara Rockwell

Eric Schmidt 

Blair White 

Chris Koenen 

Jessica (Jess 2) Kraus

Ryan Krassinger

Katie Hauck 

Mark Krassinger

Connor & Kacey McCarthy 

Zach Buckler 

Wedding Party

Everything You Need to Know

Q + A

We have a discounted block of rooms available at&nbsp;The Wildwood Hotel&nbsp;for our wedding weekend! To book at our special rate, you&nbsp;MUST&nbsp;call the hotel directly at&nbsp;636-733-9100&nbsp;and reference the&nbsp;Skiljan/Bickel Wedding group. You can reserve one of the rooms we have held in our block or upgrade to any available room at our discounted rate. Room Rates:Standard Double Queen&nbsp;– $124/night (Thursday), $150/night (Friday &amp; Saturday)Standard King&nbsp;– $128/night (Thursday), $154/night (Friday &amp; Saturday)Deluxe King Suite&nbsp;– $162/night (Thursday), $188/night (Friday &amp; Saturday) Important Details:The deadline to book at our discounted rate is&nbsp;September 8, 2025, but we kindly ask guests to book as soon as possible to ensure availability. Reservations&nbsp;cannot&nbsp;be booked online, through the hotel’s website, or any third-party site—you must call directly. Hotel Amenities: - Free daily continental breakfast- Heated indoor pool with hot tub- Fitness center (8 am to 10 pm)- Transportation to and from wedding venue will be provided for guests staying at hotel - Guest of hotel staying Friday night will also be invited to a welcome party across the street from hotel - starting at 6pm We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

The Wildwood Hotel

Shuttle service will be provided for guests staying at the hotel. The shuttle will take you to and from the wedding venue, so you can relax and enjoy the evening without worrying about driving. More details on timing will be shared closer to the date. Shuttle will arrive at hotel at 4:15pm and will depart for the venue between 4:20 - 4:30pm. Shuttles back to the hotel will start at 9:15pm and will run continuously until 11:45pm. If you are not on the 11:45pm shuttle you will need to find your own transportation back to the hotel. For guests checking in on Saturday, you can call the hotel around 1pm to see if they have your room available for early check-in.

Shuttle Service TBD

Travel

Looking to get in a game while you're in town? Gather a group and play at the Missouri Pickleball Club—Mark &amp; Patti’s home club! As members, we can reserve a court for you. Just give us a few days notice so we can get it on the schedule—courts fill up fast in the fall!

Missouri Pickleball Club Ellisville

A Skiljan family favorite and the spot where Mark celebrated his bachelor party! Whether you're a seasoned golfer or just in it for the snacks and swings, Topgolf is always a fun time. Great for groups, rain or shine.

Topgolf St. Louis - Chesterfield

The District is a lively spot just 20 minutes from Wildwood, perfect for daytime fun before the wedding. It offers a mix of restaurants, shops, and entertainment—including Topgolf and Main Event. It’s also home to Narwhal’s Crafted, a go-to for frozen cocktails and laid-back daytime drinks. Whether you’re looking to grab lunch, play a few games, or relax with a drink, The District has plenty to enjoy.

The District of St. Louis

Just a short drive from Wildwood, Rockwoods Reservation offers peaceful hiking trails through forested hills and rocky bluffs. It’s a great spot to get outside, stretch your legs, and enjoy a bit of Missouri’s natural beauty during your stay. Trails range from easy loops to more challenging hikes, so there’s something for everyone.

Rockwoods Reservation

Things to Do

Registry

Patti & Mark

Patti & Mark

P&M

Ceremony & Reception

Farewell Brunch