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Patty & John

May 5, 2026 • Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

Patty & John

May 5, 2026 • Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

Our Story

It all started with the STL Cardinals.

Below is our story told by both Patty and John. There are 2 versions.


In 2006, the Cards won the World Series. I (Patty) was standing outside our new stadium (gravel lot where the old stadium used to be) with a disposable camera snapping pictures of the crowd.

Patty's Side:
Fast forward to 2014. Old Busch Stadium’s gravel lot had become Ballpark Village, the Cards were back in action, and I was… let’s just say enthusiastically celebrating Opening Day. I was done riding the mechanical bull at PBR Bar when John tried to strike up a conversation. My response? I hip-checked him to the floor and told him to leave me alone. (True love, right?)

April 07, 2014

Patty's Side: Fast forward to 2014. Old Busch Stadium’s gravel lot had become Ballpark Village, the Cards were back in action, and I was… let’s just say enthusiastically celebrating Opening Day. I was done riding the mechanical bull at PBR Bar when John tried to strike up a conversation. My response? I hip-checked him to the floor and told him to leave me alone. (True love, right?)

John's Side: A group of friends and I headed to the PBR bar in ballpark village after a full morning and afternoon of tailgate shenanigans. As I peered across the over crowded dance floor to the bar on the other side of the room I saw her. It was as if the heavens opened up and shone their glorious lights down upon the most beautiful woman I had ever laid my eyes upon. I had to meet this angel. So I quickly worked my way across the dance floor using my most seductive signature dance moves. I was within striking distance so I used one of my finishing moves, the ol' hip bump, and started to say hi. She immediately hip checked me with the force of a thousand suns, knocking me to my knees. As I struggled to regain my footing, it occurred to me that my dance moves were successful and she was clearly into me. I was in. Over the next hour or two I chatted her up, Made arrangements to ride the mechanical bull together(ask me later how that went), and got her phone number. The rest is history. True love at first sight. Aaah, say la V or something like that.

Patty's Side: The next morning, I receive a mystery text while at
work....

April 08, 2014

Patty's Side: The next morning, I receive a mystery text while at work....
John's Side: Even though I had just received a devastating blow to my
ego, I was not to be deterred.  I sent Patty this picture and told her that if she could pick me out of a line up, then we could go on a date.  Patty quickly recognized that annoying (yet devastatingly handsome) guy
that would not leave her alone.  As reluctant as she was to go out with me, she did think the line up thing was clever enough to warrant giving him a shot.  The date was set and the rest is history.

April 08, 2014

John's Side: Even though I had just received a devastating blow to my ego, I was not to be deterred. I sent Patty this picture and told her that if she could pick me out of a line up, then we could go on a date. Patty quickly recognized that annoying (yet devastatingly handsome) guy that would not leave her alone. As reluctant as she was to go out with me, she did think the line up thing was clever enough to warrant giving him a shot. The date was set and the rest is history.

But here’s the kicker: later that year, while talking about the 2006 World Series, I (Patty) dug up those old photos I had taken outside Busch Stadium that I told you about in the beginning of the story, and there he was — John, right in front of me eight years before we “met.” Same gate, same spot, just waiting for the timing to be right.


And if you don't know the area... where I took this picture, is exactly where Ballpark Village was built (that gravel lot); which is where we "met"

The Stalker

Picture of The Stalker

So really, this story isn’t just about baseball, or fate, or synchronicity, or even a perfectly executed hip-check.


It’s about timing, persistence, and a little Cardinals Redbird magic. ❤️