Wedding Day

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Our Wedding

Every love story is unique, and ours began in a place neither of us ever expected—a virtual world. What started as casual conversations quickly became something we both looked forward to every day. We discovered a friendship built on laughter, endless conversations, shared adventures, and the kind of connection that made distance feel a little smaller.Before long, headsets turned into phone calls, phone calls turned into plane tickets, and virtual hugs became real embraces. Every visit left us more certain than the last that what we had was something truly special. We explored new places together, made countless memories and found joy in the simple moments just as much as the big ones.Along the way, we learned that love isn’t measured by miles, but by choosing each other every single day. No matter how far apart we were, our hearts always found their way back together. What began in the most unexpected place became the most undeniable part of our lives.Now, we’re beyond excited to begin our greatest adventure yet—not as two people separated by distance, but as partners, best friends, and soon, husband and wife. We can’t wait to celebrate this next chapter with all of you.

How We Found Each Other

Our Story

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Mandy's niece, best friend, and Maid of Honor. Mandy has had the joy of watching her grow from a tiny three-month-old into the incredible woman she is today. She now owns her own private practice and is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Texas, and we all couldn't be more proud of all she's accomplished. Mandy is so grateful she's standing beside her as this new chapter is celebrated.

Jesstine Brehms

Tad and Paul met through church in 1992ish and then again though work at Pizza Hut, eventually becoming roommates, briefly. Tad has always been a close friend to Paul, always offering a listening ear, good advice, and of course, laughter. Tad frequently finds himself in Las Vegas for work and is always sure to get together with Paul for a meal and to catch up. Paul is honored to have Tad standing beside him for this new beginning in his life.

Tad Helke

Jennifer is Paul's Cousin, Daughter of Paul's Uncle Mike and Aunt Kimberly Jennifer is Paul’s cousin and the daughter of his Uncle Mike and Aunt Kimberly. She’s been part of family gatherings and milestones for as long as she can remember, bringing warmth and steady support to Paul through the years. Jennifer’s kindness and easygoing nature make her a joy to have in the wedding party, and Paul and Mandy are grateful she’ll be standing with them on the big day.

Jennifer Clark

Nick and Paul met through work in 2016, becoming roommates in 2018 and remain as roommates to this day. Nick has been a great friend to Paul, even though the tough times. Poolside conversations and sharing the morning commute have been instrumental in molding the friendship they have today.

Nick Brock

Meela is 4 yrs old. She is Paul's second cousin. She loves ALL things Disney, especially the princesses. She can name them all! Her favorite is Ariel. (She has that in common with Mandy!). She loves to dance and her favorite foods are chicken, avocado and pepporni pizza. 

Meela Grace

Wedding Party

Our ceremony and reception will take place outdoors at 1:00 p.m. in late October. Cocktail or dressy casual attire is requested. We'd love for our guests to join in the spirit of our autumn celebration by wearing rich fall colors such as burgundy, plum, rust, marigold, champagne, or other warm seasonal tones. Most importantly, wear something that makes you feel comfortable—we're simply excited to celebrate with you!

Dress Code

🍂 Why Fall?Autumn has always felt special to us. We love the rich colors, the cozy feeling of the season, and the quiet beauty that comes with it. More than that, fall reminds us that change can be beautiful—that every season has its purpose, and sometimes the most meaningful beginnings come during a time of transformation. As we begin this new chapter together, we couldn't imagine a more fitting season to celebrate it. 📸 Can I Take Pictures?Absolutely! We would love for you to capture the memories throughout the day. After the ceremony, we'll also have a QR code available where you can easily upload your favorite photos and videos. We'd love to see the wedding through your eyes and would be so grateful if you'd share your special moments with us! 💻 Will the Wedding Be Livestreamed?Yes! We know not everyone is able to travel, and we'd love for our family and friends to celebrate with us from wherever they are. A livestream link will be provided closer to the wedding date for anyone who would like to join us virtually. 🎁 Gifts?Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you'd like to bless us further, we've created a registry to help us start this next chapter together. They can be brought to the wedding, or sent to the address on the invitation. 🌞 What will the weather be like?October in Las Vegas is one of the best times of year! Afternoon temperatures are typically warm, while evenings can cool off. You may want to bring a light sweater or jacket for later in the evening. 🌿 What should I wear?We'd love for our guests to embrace the autumn season! Think warm fall colors like forest green, rust, burgundy, mustard, plum, navy, brown, or other earthy tones. Semi-formal attire is perfect. Most importantly, wear something comfortable and come ready to celebrate! What do we hope you remember most about our wedding?More than anything, we hope you leave feeling the same warmth and joy that this day represents for us. We want our wedding to feel less like an event and more like spending a beautiful autumn afternoon with the people who have shaped our lives. Thank you for being part of our story.

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✈️ TravelWe're so excited to celebrate with everyone! Whether you're traveling from across the country or just across town, we hope this information helps make your trip easy and enjoyable. Las Vegas is easy to navigate, and while it's famous for casinos and nightlife, it's also home to incredible restaurants, beautiful scenery, unique attractions, and some of our favorite memories together. We hope you'll take some time to explore while you're here! 🛬 AirportHarry Reid International Airport (LAS) is approximately 10–15 minutes from the wedding venue and offers flights from most major airlines.Uber, Lyft, taxis, and rental cars are readily available from the airport. 🏨 Where to StayBudget-FriendlyBaymont by Wyndham Las Vegas South StripComplimentary breakfastComfortable, quiet locationClose to the wedding venueGreat value for families and longer staysMid-Range South Point Hotel &amp; CasinoSpacious roomsMultiple restaurantsBowling alley, movie theater, and shoppingEasy drive to the venueOn the Strip If you'd like the full Las Vegas experience, you'll find hotels at every price point. Some favorites include:New York-New YorkParis Las VegasThe VenetianPark MGMBellagioAll are about a 15–25 minute drive from the venue. 🚗 TransportationWhile rideshare services are plentiful, renting a car can make it easier if you'd like to explore Red Rock Canyon, Hoover Dam, or other attractions outside the Strip.Parking will be available at the wedding. 🌤️ October WeatherOctober is one of our favorite times of year in Las Vegas!Expect:☀️ Warm afternoons🍂 Comfortable eveningsVery little humidityWe recommend bringing a light sweater or jacket for after sunset. ❤️ Make a Weekend of It!If you're coming from out of town, we encourage you to arrive a day early or stay an extra day or two.There is so much more to Las Vegas than casinos, and we'd love for you to experience some of the places that have become special to us.(Be sure to check out our "Things to Do" page for some of our favorite recommendations!) If you have any questions while planning your trip, please don't hesitate to reach out! We know traveling can be stressful, and we're happy to help however we can. We can't wait to celebrate with you!

Travel

Las Vegas is so much more than casinos and nightlife! Whether you're looking for adventure, incredible food, beautiful scenery, or unique experiences, there's something for everyone. If you have some extra time during your visit, here are a few of our favorite places and experiences! ❤️ Places That Are Special to Us⛲ Bellagio FountainsThe Bellagio Fountains are one of the most iconic sights in Las Vegas—and they'll always hold a special place in our hearts because this is where Paul proposed! If you haven't seen the fountain show, it's definitely worth making time for. 🧜 Mermaid LoungeIf you're looking for a fun cocktail or mocktail in a unique atmosphere, the Mermaid Lounge is one of our favorite spots. He knows I love mermaids and it was on of our first places he took me. It's a place we've enjoyed together and always recommend to friends and family. (Even if you don't drink, the atmosphere is part of the fun!) 🥞 Peppermill Restaurant &amp; Fireside LoungeThe Peppermill is much more than a restaurant to us—it's part of our story. It was the location of our very first date, and to this day it's still the first place we go whenever Paul picks me up from the airport. Whether you're stopping in for breakfast, lunch, dinner, or one of their famous oversized desserts, you'll find classic Las Vegas charm, generous portions, and a warm, nostalgic atmosphere. If you have the chance, we highly recommend experiencing one of our favorite traditions. 🎡 Explore Las Vegas⛲ Watch the Bellagio Fountain Show (free!)🌺 Visit the Bellagio Conservatory &amp; Botanical Gardens (free!)🎨 Explore Area15🛒 Experience Meow Wolf's Omega Mart🎡 Ride the High Roller Observation Wheel🦩 Visit the Flamingo Wildlife Habitat (free!)🍫 Tour the Ethel M Chocolate Factory &amp; Botanical Cactus Garden🕹️ Play at the Pinball Hall of Fame🏜️ Take a scenic drive through Red Rock Canyon🌵 Explore the Springs Preserve📸 Snap a photo at the Welcome to Fabulous Las Vegas Sign🎭 Catch a world-class show 🍂 A Note from UsWhile Las Vegas is famous for its casinos, we've come to love it for so much more. Some of our favorite memories have been made exploring unique restaurants, discovering hidden gems, taking scenic drives, and simply spending time together. We hope you enjoy experiencing a side of Las Vegas that goes beyond the Strip and creates a few unforgettable memories of your own!

Paul & Mandy

Paul & Mandy

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