Online dating can be a scary place, especially when you've been a dedicated bachelor for more than a decade. In a sea of profiles emphasizing stylish poses and trendy travel destinations, I was enticing the ladies with pictures of my vegetable garden, my forays into pickling and canning, and a bubbly sourdough starter. Far from a typical approach, it turned out to be perfect for finding someone perfect for me.

From the first time we talked I knew we were not only on the same page, it was the same book. Our courtship was wholly honest and open, carried forward through prayer, and focused on our shared goal of a Christ centered marriage as the foundation of our lives.

The Lord gave me a verse right away that was my guide, Proverbs 31:10:

"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is for above rubies."

For years I had been praying to God wondering where the woman He had for me was, and when I met you I realized the Lord had been preparing ME to be ready on His timeline according to His plan.

And I knew...You asked me "but how do you know?" and as these things go, I had to answer "I just know."

I know that I will always love you with all my heart and soul.

I know that I will always love our girls Gyselle and Bella.

I know that I am blessed beyond words to have you three in my life and to be in yours.

I know that I have never known joy or fulfillment like I do in caring and providing for you.

I know that I will always love to cook your favorite meals and surprise you with your favorite treats.

I know that I will always protect you with my life.

I know that I love you with my whole heart, and I know that we are the family God intended.