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Welcome Party

The Conservatory at One Sansome

The Main Event: Wedding Day

Holbrook House

After Party

Fall

Our Wedding

The early days

Like all great love stories, ours began under the fluorescent lights of an office in Washington, DC in late 2014. We quickly bonded over a shared love of spreadsheets, cooking, and live music. After a New Year's Eve kiss at DC's most romantic venue—Wonderland Ballroom—we stopped being "just coworkers." Quickly inseparable, we spent the next 4 years merging friend groups, exploring nearly every restaurant in the DMV, and traveling the country to attend countless weddings. In Fall 2017, Rachel moved to Boston for grad school while Phil held down the fort in DC (and we mean literally—he moved into her old apartment).

The Proposal

After graduate school, we made the tough decision to move to San Francisco for Rachel's new job. Phil suggested we return to where it all started—Wonderland Ballroom—for a final DC brunch. Sensing a proposal could be coming, Rachel dressed up, ready to answer the big question. But the brunch ended with an unexpected twist: not a ring, but a scavenger hunt clue! The adventure led Rachel through her favorite DC spots, where friends waited to celebrate at each stop and then give her another clue. At the final destination, with family gathered around, Phil proposed in front of the iconic "LOVE" mural—and Rachel finally got to say yes!

The first wedding

After moving to the West Coast we eagerly planned a wedding for Fall 2020 in Boston. As we all know, life had other plans—our wedding became a minor casualty amid a much larger tragedy. Not wanting to wait any longer, we married on October 3, 2020, surrounded by our immediate families at Rachel's family home on the Massachusetts coast. The intimate ceremony was beautiful, and we're grateful we didn't wait for the pandemic to "blow over." Still, it broke our hearts that we couldn't celebrate with more of our favorite people. We promised ourselves we'd find the right time to celebrate with all our loved ones.

The last 5 years

For the past five years, we've enjoyed life in the Bay Area with our furry four-legged son, Maru, cooking a lot, and traveling whenever possible! We can't wait to celebrate our love with you all this October in the city we now call home. We truly wouldn’t be here without each of you!

Our Story

Photos

Wedding Party

Q + A

We are so excited to host you in San Francisco! ﻿The wedding will take place in downtown San Francisco, close to many hotels. We've secured a small block at the following 2 hotels.

This is a beautiful and newly remodeled Marriott property located in the financial district of San Francisco. 0.4 miles from the venue$239-$289 per night plus taxes/fees Please book by September 26, 2025 to take advantage of these rates.

The Jay, Autograph Collection

Click the link below and enter the block code 251017TRW to secure the block rate. 1.5 blocks from the venue$419 per night

Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero

Travel

Welcome to beautiful San Francisco! This city offers a spectacular array of sights and experiences, from world-famous landmarks to charming local spots. We're thrilled you're here to share in our wedding celebration and hope you enjoy discovering all the magic San Francisco has in store. Here are a few suggestions to check out if you have time!

Known as the "Crookedest Street in the World," this famous one-block section in Russian Hill features eight hairpin turns. It's a popular spot for photos and a unique San Francisco experience, offering great views of the bay and Coit Tower.

Lombard Street

No trip to San Francisco is complete without experiencing this engineering marvel. Rent a bike or take a leisurely stroll across the bridge for unparalleled views of the city skyline, Alcatraz Island, and the Pacific Ocean. You can even bike all the way to charming Sausalito on the other side!

Golden Gate Bridge

This massive urban oasis is larger than New York's Central Park and offers a diverse range of attractions. Explore the serene Japanese Tea Garden, visit the California Academy of Sciences, or simply enjoy a picnic amidst beautiful scenery. There's something for everyone to discover in this expansive park.

Golden Gate Park

Experience the beauty of the San Francisco Bay from the water! You can take a ferry to Alcatraz Island for a fascinating, historic tour of the notorious former prison (book tickets well in advance!). Alternatively, enjoy a scenic ride to the charming, picturesque town of Sausalito, perfect for waterfront dining, art galleries, and stunning views back at San Francisco.

Ferry Ride Across the Bay

Visit our neighborhood and ascend Telegraph Hill to Coit Tower, a distinctive fluted column offering 360-degree panoramic views of the city, Alcatraz, the Golden Gate Bridge, and the Bay Bridge.

Coit Tower

Head to Alamo Square Park for a classic San Francisco photo opportunity. Here, you'll find the iconic "Painted Ladies," a row of colorful Victorian houses set against the stunning backdrop of the city skyline. It's a perfect spot for a leisurely stroll and beautiful views.

Painted Ladies

Hop on one of San Francisco's iconic cable cars for a truly classic experience. These moving national historic landmarks offer a fun and scenic way to navigate the city's famous hills and get a taste of its rich history.

Cable Car

Attractions

Registry-old

You guys are traveling far to celebrate with us and we've already been living together for almost 7 years so please believe us when we say no gifts are necessary!

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Our Registry

Any other weekend, we'd love to take you to all our favorite hidden gems around the city, so come back and visit us again! For now, we will leave you with some fave spots that are within walking distance of the hotels / venue. If you do need to get around by car, we love calling a Waymo instead of an Uber. Use code RACHELUYGL to get $$ off your first ride

Coffee / light fare<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/hXCc1Wv5mrDTjiY67" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Postscript</a>: Great spot for coffee, specialty snacks, and lunch<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/Lvp7mv3UyVGZ3fLd8" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Home Coffee</a>: Asian inspired coffee shop with amazing latte art<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/TNrcVhraVC1hVUpe7" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Reveille Coffee Co</a>: Our go-to for working out of the house with a great cup of coffee and even better people watching. Walk north up Grant Ave from there for shopping and bar hopping. We live just half a mile north! More serious food<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/uws6rLMuSrBb7wyV7" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Cafe Me</a>: Amazing breakfast sandwiches<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/uws6rLMuSrBb7wyV7" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Sisterita</a>: Super cute brunch<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/PtFjG4sBqWizZgw69" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">City View Dim Sum</a>: Our fave dim sum in the city<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/tmpt7UY9Wiox3BoB9" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">El Farolito</a>: Best burritos outside of the Mission!<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/zisjUFeYQrB7i7as6" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Outta Sight Pizza</a>: Great slice shop, expect a line at peak hours<a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/mrXih4p6aFebXqpMA" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Ferry Building</a>: Tons of food options, local shopping &amp; great views

Rachel + Phil

Rachel + Phil

R&P

Welcome Party

The Main Event: Wedding Day

After Party