We would love to see our friends and family dressed up with us! We are requesting a formal / black tie optional dress code for the evening. Formalwear for gentlemen may include a jacket and tie or a black traditional suit, a tuxedo is not required, but welcomed. For women, floor length or mid length dresses. We ask that guests stick to our wedding colors—black and gold. Please do not wear colors reserved for the bride: white, ivory, or cream.

Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you receive a plus one, your invitation will addressed as {Your Name} and Guest.

We love your little ones as much as you do! However, we have decided to keep our ceremony and reception adult only—with the exception of those in the wedding party. All children who are invited will be included on the family’s invitation and on the RSVP page. We encourage you to take this as a date night!

To help us with our planning, we kindly ask that you RSVP by November 15th, 2025. If we do not receive your RSVP by the date specified, we will have to mark you as “not attending” and cannot make any exceptions. We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner. We hope you can understand!

We kindly ask that you put your phones on silent and away for an unplugged ceremony. We have a wonderful photographer that will capture all of those photos for you!