Rheanna & Ryan
Friday, December 5, 2025 • Irvine, CA
Rheanna & Ryan
Friday, December 5, 2025 • Irvine, CA
Q + A
I have a digital camera of my own, can I bring it?
Sure! Just use it after the ceremony please!
Will there be a menu on the invitation?
Yes, but you won't have to choose anything, since it's a buffet! There will be many options, including vegan options.
Am I Invited To The Ceremony or The Reception?
You are invited to both!
Can I bring my kids?
Yes, for children 11 and older. No, for children younger than 11. Sorry! We understand if this means you can't go!
Will there be drinks?
Open bar, baby!!! But there will also be security, so...don't break things, please.
Do I get a plus one?
Some people get a plus one and some people don't. Please do not get offended if you do not get one, but we are paying for this fucking wedding ourselves.
What's the dress code?
FORMAL. Look fancy. Cocktail dresses, floor-length dresses, pantsuits, suits, long sleeve button ups with a tie. If you show up in jeans, you WILL be beaten with a hammer.
Okay but define formal?
IF YOU WEAR JEANS WE WILL BE BEATING YOU WITH A HAMMER
Should I wear any specific colors?
We do have a color scheme for the wedding, but if you're just a guest, you do not have to follow that at all! Wear whatever color you want! But if you wear white, you will be beaten with a hammer.
I Can't Find My Name On The RSVP List?
If for some reason you can't find your name when you type it in, assume I put a different last name than the one you're using. Like if you got married and I didn't know that, put the last name I knew before. We are pretty sure we got everyone's names right though.
Can I Take The Centerpieces?
Listen...I don't know the answer to that yet. It depends on if we end up buying whatever the centerpieces come in. If we end up buying them, then yes, but if we end up renting them from the venue then no.
Is It Gonna Be Cold That Day?
December in California, especially in the OC, is very different than December anywhere else. I don't expect it to be any colder than 65 Fahrenheit (about 18 Celsius). It will probably be anywhere between 75-62 Fahrenheit (about 23-16 Celsius).
Is It Indoor or Outdoors?
Ceremony is outdoors and the reception is indoors. Cocktail hour is both indoors and outdoors, and we have access to outdoor heaters in case it gets too cold!
Why do you have such weird things on your registry?
If you know either of us at all, you already know the answer to that question.
Is it gonna be a religious wedding?
no <3
My outfit is like an offwhite, can I still wear it?
If it even resembles white, you will be beaten with a hammer.
Why is Lupe your flower girl?
Because she is beautiful and perfect, next question.
Why a hammer?
Gets the point across.