What is the dresscode for the wedding?
Our wedding will be held at a Shinto shrine. Formal attire is recommended. For men, a suit and tie is appropriate. For women, a dress or dressy separates. Avoid all-white outfits (bride’s color) and very casual clothing. Women should also avoid short skirts/dresses and low-cut tops out of respect for the shrine setting.
What about black?
Yes, black is fine for formal occasions in Japan, but pairing it with colorful accessories can make it feel more festive.
Men should avoid wearing a black tie though.
Do I need to bring anything bring anything to the ceremony?
Your presence is truly the greatest gift you could give us. Traveling all the way to Japan to celebrate our wedding means the world to us.
If you would still like to give something, the Japanese custom is to bring a “goshugi” . A quick search for “goshugi” will give you plenty of tips on tradition and presentation.
Will the ceremony be in English?
The Shinto ceremony will be conducted in Japanese. We’ll provide a short printed guide so you can follow along and understand the meaning of each part.
Can we take photos during the ceremony?
No, unfortunately not. No phones or cameras are allowed in the shrine.
After the ceremony at the reception photos are allowed.
Will we need to remove our shoes in the shrine?
Yes. Shoes will need to be taken off at the shrine. Socks or stockings are required to enter the shrine. At the reception shoes are allowed.
Will there be someone to give the guests instructions?
Yes. MC Ken (Rie's brother) will be explaining when to do what in English.
How long will the ceremony last?
The Shinto wedding ceremony will take about 20–30 minutes.
What will happen after the ceremony?
Right after the ceremony we will be taking photos in the shrine in different constallations, so please remaing nearby.
After the photos session we will head to the reception venue next to the shrine.
How long is the reception and what will happen afterwards?
The reception starts at 4:30 PM and ends at 7:00 PM.
Unlike western weddings the official party doesn't go all the way into the early morning. But fear not - we got you covered and will reveal the detailed plan at a later time.
How do we get to the shrine?
Google Maps if your friend (Search Kanda Myoujin or use this link: https://maps.app.goo.gl/XAQRfUvi9nZBSHH8A?g_st=ipc
The closest stations are Akihabara, Ochanomizu, and Suehirocho station.
Is there anything we should know about shrine etiquette?
When entering the shrine grounds, it’s customary to walk on the sides of the path (the center is reserved for the gods), bow lightly before entering, and speak quietly. If you pass through a torii gate, bow once before stepping in.
You can read more here: https://www.japan-guide.com/e/e2057.html
What about weather?
Shrine grounds are partially outdoors. Please dress appropriately for the season and bring a coat or umbrella if needed.