Your invite should indicate if you have a plus one on the envelope. We tried to accomodate folks that we knew were in relationships but unfortunately as our invite list got larger, we had to make some choices. Please don't bring any unexpected guests and let us know if you think we missed someone in error .

We planned these as adult-only celebrations. Please let us know if that will be a hardship for you, and let's have a chat about it.

For the wedding: September in this coastal area in Spain can still be very sunny and warm. Please plan to dress lightly and bring sunblock. We're hoping that the evening hours of our event will bring some shade. For the cocktail reception: Who knows what the Portland weather will be like, but we'll be covered either way.

We would like to limit cars on site. Please let us know if you are thinking about renting a car, but try to avoid it if you can. See our travel page for some options and information.

For Spain: Wear something semi-formal but comfortable in the weather, in sunset colors (whatever that means to you). Dress for a late summer wedding in Spain, duh. <3 For Portland: Dress for a fun cocktail party.

For Spain: The wedding is planned for the outdoors. We're hoping that we'll have the typically beautiful weather we've experienced in our various travels to the region. For Portland: The weather will likely be wet but we'll be indoors.

For Spain: Please see our recommendations in the 'travel' section. For Portland: There are many many options available.

In lieu of a physical gift registry, we have a honeymoon fund link if you'd like to contribute. We know that some folks are travelling to Europe to take part in the wedding ceremony there, so we appreciate that your presence may be gift enough. The rest of you...cough up the dough. (jk, jk). Everyone can contribute whatever feels good for them.

For Spain: We are providing (optional) transport to come to and leave the venue on the day of the event. This transport will pick up and drop off in Sitges but will be on a strict schedule. Taxis may or may not be harder to come by. You should check out our "travel" page for more info.

When you RSVP, you should see an option for food allergies. Please note them there - including how severe they might be. We will try to take allergies into account when seating people, too.