Shady Elms Farm

Wedding Day

Summer

Our Wedding

Like a lot of 21st century love stories, Ryland and Jorden met on a dating app. If you would have asked Jorden 3 years ago if she was going to meet her future husband on a dating app, she would have laughed. After getting to know each other over text, Jorden and Ryland planned their first date at one of Jorden's favorite restaurants, The Lot, in Oakmont. Earlier in the day of their first date, Jorden unknowingly dropped her phone in a parking lot, and when she found it, it had been run over by a car in the rain. By the time Jorden was getting ready to leave for her date with Ryland, her phone was completely broken. She had to send Ryland a message from her computer saying she wouldn't be able to text him when she arrived to the restaurant. On top of already being nervous about going on a first date, this added a whole new layer of anxiety to the night. Naturally, Jorden was fashionably late. Unable to contact her, Ryland began to wonder if she was even coming. But when they when they finally sat down in their seats around a fire pit, all of the nerves and stress slowly faded away. Unlike anyone Jorden had ever met, Ryland made her feel so comfortable and seen. She couldn't help but open herself up to him because it felt like she was talking to an old friend. Jorden and Ryland quickly fell for each other, and in the midst of growing a romantic relationship, they also became best friends. It's truly incredible to meet someone with the same values and goals as you, who you also enjoy doing everything with. For Jorden and Ryland, even the most mundane parts of life are so much brighter and more exciting because they have each other. Over the past 2 years they have learned how to love each other well and push one another to be the best versions of themselves. Ryland and Jorden can't wait to continue pursuing each other in marriage and begin to build their life together.

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Joe is Ryland's former Young Life Area Director and now mentor. Joe has played a very influential role in Ryland's life. He is an incredible role model who has showed Ryland how to follow Jesus in all aspects of life. Joe and his wife Lindsey have shown Ryland and Jorden what it means to love and honor your spouse in a Christian marriage. Ryland and Jorden are honored to have Joe lead them into their marriage. 

Joseph Faini

Alex is Jorden's cousin and honorary big sister. She has been instrumental in planning Ryland and Jorden's wedding. None of it would be possible without her help, guidance, and generosity. Alex and Jorden have been extremely close their entire lives, and she has been an incredible role model to Jorden.

Alex Hoffman

Allison is Jorden's younger sister. She has been with Jorden through every stage of life and is excited to be by her side on her big day. Allison and Jorden have a long tradition of prompting family dance parties and can't wait to make Jorden's wedding the best one yet!

Allison Black

Sophie is one of Jorden's best friends and works with her in the pediatric ICU. Sophie is the sweetest friend and has supported Ryland and Jorden's relationship more than anyone. Sophie is one of the biggest blessings nursing has given Jorden, and Jorden wouldn't be able to do life without her. 

Sophia Symanski

Amanda is one of Jorden's best friends from college. Few people can make Jorden laugh the way Amanda can and she has been at Jorden's side through a lot influential moments. Amanda's friendship has always been such a light in Jorden's life, and Jorden's wedding day would be incomplete without her. 

Amanda Mattia

Lexie is also one of Jorden's best friends from college. Jorden would not be the same person without Lexie's wisdom and encouragement. Lexie is the kind of friend that is always willing to listen and offer sound advice; the kind of advice Jorden needs as she enters into this new and exciting stage of life. 

Alexis Carrion

Danny is one of Ryland's best friends and former roommates from college. Danny's wisdom and loyalty has meant the world to Ryland. He is always intentional with Ryland and encourages him during all phases of life. Their countless adventures and inside jokes have help form and strengthen their lifelong friendship. 

Daniel Godstrey

Lukas is also one of Ryland's former roommates and best friends. Lukas has a unique sense of humor that can make Ryland laugh uncontrollably. He also is always down for whatever and shares Ryland's spontaneous nature. Lukas is one of the most reliable and generous people Ryland has in his life. 

Lukas Shaulis 

Aidan is another former roommate and friend from college. Aidan is someone Ryland looks up to because of his wisdom and steady nature. He is the kind of friend that listens well, asks questions, and follows up on them later. Aidan will the be the groomsman to keep the others in line but also knows to have a good time. 

Aidan John

Jonny is yet again another former college roommate and friend of Ryland's. Jonny shares Ryland's love for bourbon which has led to many late night conversations between the two of them. Ryland has always admired Jonny's vast knowledge of the Bible, which has helped shape and challenge Ryland's faith. Jonny is a kid at heart and pushes Ryland outside of his comfort zone. 

Jonathan Geisler 

Keegan is Ryland's older brother. Keegan has always been very giving and cares for Ryland and their family well. Keegan inspired Ryland's love for bourbon, which has strengthened their relationship despite living so far apart. Growing up, their competitive natures always pushed Ryland to be better. 

Keegan Smith

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Approximately 20 minutes away from the venue, this hotel offers large, open-plan suites, equipped with full kitchen and living spaces so guests have plenty of room. There are plenty of common spaces and a large outdoor patio for guests to enjoy time together after the reception and restaurants nearby in walking distance. The hotel is also currently undergoing full room renovations that will be complete by the wedding. The room block is available until Monday, July 21, 2025. Guests can still book rooms at this hotel after that date but will not be guaranteed rooms near other guests or receive the decreased block rate. A shuttle service to and from the venue for wedding guests at this hotel will be provided as well! Hotel guests will be provided shuttle service information upon check in.

Ryland & Jorden

Ryland & Jorden

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