Quiet Meadow Farm

Wedding Ceremony

Wedding Reception

Our Wedding

For many couples romance blooms with love at first sight. That was not the case for this soon-to-be-married couple. Trevor and Sadie first met on a spring break trip with Intervarsity Christian Fellowship in 2022. A week on an island studying the first half of the Gospel of Mark put Sadie and Trevor in a confined room with 20ish other college kids.It was here that Sadie first spent time around Trevor, and she was not impressed. She thought he was arrogant, talked too much, and was generally self-centered.Trevor did not think these things of Sadie. In fact, Trevor didn't even remember afterwards that Sadie was there that week.In Trevor's defense, Sadie was a quiet little mouse around a lot of loud college students and slipped under the radar for most of the other students attending from Weber State.Although we were in a room with only ~20 other people for an entire week and I remembered everyone's names and existences after the trip...😂 -SadieThis concludes the first part of their story, with Sadie unimpressed and Trevor unaware, and for the next few months that is how they will remain.

Meeting in Catalina

This state of being continued for the both of them until another Intervarsity event brought them together, Singles Night. The intent of the event was to celebrate singleness and talk about how it can be a joy and should be cherished instead of resented.Practically speaking, however, most of those in attendance were looking to not be single, and therefore present in order to see who else was looking to not be single...except for Sadie and Trevor.Sadie has always been and was openly very comfortable and content remaining single. In fact, she had no intention of dating and marrying anyone ever and was indeed looking forward to a life of singleness with relish.Trevor, who'd never been pro-singleness, had a lot of growth between Catalina and Singles Night. Part of this was realizing he needed to slow down on relationships.Sadie and Trevor wound up sitting next to each other at this event, and had a great conversation about the joys of being single. This was the first conversation they had had one-on-one. Sadie was surprised at how much Trevor had grown and matured. Trevor recognized Sadie as being a real person in existence. It was great.In the following months they continued to mingle at various Intervarsity events. Often Trevor would go out of his way to sit closer to or talk to Sadie. She thought this was rather strange and wondered why he kept popping up near her. He was normally a social butterfly who rarely stayed with the same group for long at events, and it was odd that he would occasionally sit next to her for longer than five minutes.It turns out that Trevor had taken an interest in Sadie. This started as a general curiosity about who this strange, quiet, sassy person was, who would be there one minute and then gone the next, a girl rather fond of the good ol' Irish exit.After a few months of light flirting and normal conversation, Trevor finally asked Sadie if she wanted to get coffee sometime and chat some more.She said yes to this, her first date ever, albeit very unsure if it was a date or just Trevor being a friendly fellow.

Road to the First Date

The first date was set in a Beans &amp; Brews coffeeshop near campus. Trevor, seeking to add to the date, had acquired a gallon bag of Legos from his aunt in order to have an activity while they chatted and drank coffee.Sadie pulled up to the Beans &amp; Brews, still uncertain if she was about to walk into her first date or a standard hangout with a new friend. For a few moments she contemplated turning around, driving away, never going to another Intervarsity event, and ghosting everyone.And then she went into the coffee shop.She saw that Trevor was wearing a particularly nice button-up shirt over a plain t-shirt and realized that this was, indeed, a date.After some playful arguing over who would pay for coffee, the conversation, coffee, and Lego assembling all went smoothly. Often Trevor was unsure of the silence, but it seemed to be going well. TREVOR MADE AN AWESOME LAWNMOWER.It was an OK lawnmower. -SadieAfter wrapping up at the coffee shop, they drove separately to Beus Pond and walked around chatting some more. They agreed that they would like to go on a second date, and scheduled it immediately because everyone knows that if you don't schedule things, they don't happen.In the following weeks the pair went on many more dates, ranging from ventures to each other's houses to play games, or adventures to the thrift store, Antelope Island, or to a number of local parks.

The First Dates

After their 9th date, Trevor left for a mission trip to Bosnia for two months. They decided to not become official prior to the trip, but did make time to call for two hours every week. This meant that Trevor had to wake up at 6am, and Sadie would have to stay up until midnight and get up for work at 6am the next morning, but they were able to make it work.After Trevor returned home, the duo continued to go on dates, happy that they still enjoyed each other's company after some time apart. A few days after his return, at Mount Ogden Park, one of their favorites, Trevor asked Sadie to be his girlfriend. Sadie said yes. She then asked him to be her boyfriend, and after a longggggg, drawn-out, deliberating silence, he said yes.(Disclaimer: throughout this date, Trevor had been farting "discreetly", and Sadie had noticed every fart. So, Sadie was somewhat aware of what she was getting herself into.)

Becoming Official

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The couple's first school year of dating was enjoyable and a growing experience for both of them. Both had to learn how to balance a full school load, work, Intervarsity, and a relationship. They had weekly dates of varying adventures and energy levels, they started a variety of TV shows they never finished, and continued to spend time together doing shared activities.Trevor started attending Sadie's church, True North, and felt really connected there. Around this time, Trevor also grew more connected with Sadie's family, even getting a mention on the family's Christmas card.This year was very good for the two as they were able to get to know each other better, understand each other's likes, dislikes, and idiosyncrasies, and grow in their communication skills.

Junior Year

Coming out of a relaxing summer, the two went back to school for their last year. The previous year's challenges became present again as busy schedules made it more difficult to spend time together. In addition to this, lack of communication and subpar conflict management skills led to high tension.Many different issues continued to build until the couple reached a breaking point. Many tears were shed and many a difficult conversation were had. It was a season of difficulty, reshaping conflict management, increasing communication and transparency, and increasing the amount of time spent together.Through this time the couple grew closer together, and they both report this as a turning point in their relationship. They always had the goal of marriage, but after going through a difficult time together and choosing to stick it out, that goal felt a lot more realistic.

Start of Senior Year

The rest of Senior year went by quickly. Busy schedules became busier, and the once never-ending college experience was coming to an end. Both Trevor and Sadie enjoyed spending time with each other and with their communities through Intervarsity and True North. They spent Tuesdays in Bible Study together with friends and continued to grow in their relationship.They each graduated with a bachelor's degree in the spring of 2025, Trevor in Business Administration, Sadie in Mechanical Engineering. After graduation they went with Sadie's family on a trip to Hawaii, and then continued forth into the adult world of trying to find full-time adult jobs.

Graduation and Onward

Sadie and Trevor had always been in conversation about getting married, and were dating with the intent to marry, but the plan was always to address it more seriously after graduation.Their initial plans were to get married one to three years after graduation. Before graduating, they decided that three extra years felt too long. In a conversation after graduation, they discussed that they wanted to get married in late spring. This meant that they would either be getting married in Spring of 2026 or 2027. They both agreed that 2027 felt like too long and they wanted to be married sooner.So just like that, they planned to be married spring of 2026. Trevor's window of when he could propose was set out to be, from one week after their conversation to 4 months later. When discussing proposal expectations about what Sadie did and didn't want, it was clear that she didn't want anything public or flashy. She didn't have a lot of things she for-sure wanted, but she did laugh a lot at the idea of her friends in ghillie suits. Trevor took careful note of this.From this point, preparations were being made, and the engagement/wedding planning were set in motion. The pair looked at and selected the wedding bands that they wanted, and Trevor plotted with Sadie's mom and sister to plan the proposal day. Over a month in advance, they had picked July 12th for their master plan.In the meantime, Jen Kappes, Sadie's mom, was hard at work starting the pre-planning steps of a wedding. Countless nights began of looking at websites, spreadsheets, and an accompanying countless number of open browser tabs.Legend has it that on any given night she is sitting in her chair in her room still researching and planning. Due to Jen's efficiency and support for the couple, they were able to look at and book their venue prior to being engaged. This is how the Save the Dates were able to be sent out so soon.

The Road to the Proposal

The stage was set, the plan was in motion, and everything was going according to plan. At least that's what Trevor hoped. He had already arranged for the Kappes family, Leif, and Kameron to be at Mount Ogden Park, most of them in ghillie suits, and lights hung prior to Sadie's and his arrival. The start of the day did not go as planned as Sadie was experiencing terrible nausea and pain.A few days earlier, Trevor had slyly suggested going on a picnic in a park. He was sure that Sadie was unaware of his plan. Sadie did indeed have full knowledge of what he was doing.Trevor: "Hey Sadie! We should go on a picnic! Maybe to the park where we had our second date and later became official? Yeah, I'm bringing this bag I don't usually carry around, totally normal! Also should we pick up some of your favorite food on the way?" Such a sneaky man. -SadieTrevor had brought Sadie's favorite juice and wine glasses, which was similar to their first kiss date. They arrived at the spot to find lights already strung up and laid out their picnic blanket to eat their Chic-Fil-A. Jen was in camouflage and being one of the least sneaky people ever seen. As the two ate their food and had their pictures taken, Sadie was unaware of the rest of the team hidden around them. Two in nearby bushes, one in distant bushes, and one directly above in a tree.They continued to eat until Sadie noticed a moving bush holding a phone. She burst out laughing as she realized it was Kameron in a ghillie suit. Scanning the area she found another one, Avery sprawled across the grass. They continued to search and eventually looked up to see a tree with a sunglasses-and-combat-boot-wearing bush, whom Trevor promptly threw a chicken nugget to.After sharing a glass of juice and many laughs, Trevor got down on one knee and proposed. She said yes!After which, Sadie acquired Trevor's ring, got down on one knee and proposed as well. He said yes!Now they are planning a wedding and their life together.The End.Thank you for reading, if you made it this far you should go ask someone in the vicinity for a well-deserved high five.See ya at the wedding!Sadie &amp; Trevor

Proposal

Our Story

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Sister of the bride. Chaos ball of unpredictable extroversion. More than mildly obsessed with Gilmore Girls. Dating another member of the bride's side of the line.

Avery Kappes

Started out not liking each other. Groom's best friend from college. Into photography, music, socializing. Will steal your interest in order to have conversation with you. Already knows your middle name.

Ethan Tolentino

Friend from school turned co-Bible study facilitator and probable future brother-in-law. General nerd, bookworm, and platelet donor. Dating the maid of honor.

Kameron Smith

Lover of beans and bean burritos. Friend and mentor from college. He gave the groom a hug before he even knew his name. 

Nate Higueros

Bestie for the restie. Met in physics, then ran into each other at the campus Starbucks, and the rest is history. Enjoyer of puzzles, DND, Taylor Swift, K-dramas, and Supernatural.

Shyann Wood

Leif randomly dropped into the bride and groom's life. Like yeast he quickly spread to all of their activities and has been thoroughly enjoyed in all circumstances. Loves chess, geography, and the U.S. Navy.

Leif White

The second-born of the Hayward twins. Good friend of the bride and groom, and current holder of the most indecisive man. Along with his brother he will beat you in every sport and activity, and be humble about it.

Isaac Hayward

The firstborn of the Hayward twins. Good friend of the bride and groom, and current holder of Wingstop's biggest customer. Along with his brother, he will beat you in every sport and activity, and be humble about it.

Taylor Hayward

Sister from another mister. O.G. member of sibling movie night. Fond of writing, DND, F1, books, and good vibes. 

Libby Dreyer

Brother of the groom. Has played games and wrestled the groom consistently throughout childhood. Constant lover of aviation, sushi, and a few key videogames.

Cameron Millar

Brother from another mother. Another O.G. member of sibling movie nights. Can usually be found working on a car, playing the guitar, watching or discussing F1, or eating dino nuggies.

Aiden Dreyer

Micah's brain is split into 3 main parts. The part that remembers various past conversations he has had with friends, the part that remembers board game information, and the part that remembers various knowledge from YouTube videos. 

Micah Frickel

Wedding Party

Button down shirts and slacks for men.Nice dress / skirt or something similar for women.There will be lots of dancing so wear or bring your dancing shoes!

Color Palette

Q + A

We are honeymooning in the Redwoods... maybe in like a shack or something.

That's where we're going, but I guess you could also go there. We'll give you $10 if you're able to find us on our honeymoon.

If you want to travel you could go see that friend that moved to another state a while ago.

You could also travel to your local zoo... those places are cool.

You could travel to the different tabs in this wedding website... boom great segway.

But if you're traveling to Utah for our wedding (first of all, THANK YOU!), then you might find it helpful to know that Quiet Meadow Farm is in Mapleton, UT which is 1 hour south of the SLC Airport. If you're looking to stay in a hotel near the venue, we would suggest looking in Springville or Provo. There are also many VRBO'S near Mapleton, Springville, and Provo. We plan to dance until the send off at 9:15pm, so if you stay nearby you could party with us until we leave (we really hope you will!) and still be in bed by 10pm!

Travel

We are going to have dancing at our wedding. Participation is mandatory; so is having fun, we have specifically requested it. So please practice in the meantime.

Below are links to videos of the line dances. These were filmed by Kenya, our swing dance teacher! Please take a look at these, and learn them if you would like to be cool. If you have specific questions on moves, feel free to talk to Sadie, Avery, Leif, Kameron, or myself (Trevor) and we will help you with whatever you need. <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1lDhIqW6r2wSd10Se7pSU2XET3FUfHP8L/view?usp=drive_link" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">ANY MAN OF MINE</a> <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/18NKGsws1dDSCjcLqh9Tw3Shf4g8M2KAV/view?usp=drive_link" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">GOOD TO GO</a> <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1puG5gLclQLafufZdsgsM4i1bF0o74R35/view?usp=drive_link" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">WAGON WHEEL</a> <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1o9ZxeIql_xCM02YDjvdMYAuhHpUFNNVe/view?usp=sharing" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">AA</a>

Sadie and I will have to go to work on Monday morning.

I am trying to have Sadie meet a hairless cat to see if she is allergic.

We are trying to plan a trip with our friend Kameron to see the ocean since he hasn't seen it yet.

We will have Jen take a sabbatical after planning all of this wedding.

If you're looking for things to do you should probably wash your bedsheets... it's been a minute.

I wanna learn how to make brioche bread and good-tasting broth.

You should mentally plan to have all phones away and silent (actually silent) during the ceremony... don't make it awkward.

You could also learn how taxes and investments work; it's probably time, you're an adult.

You should also probably wash your towels.

Please do not bring pets, the venue doesn't allow them and the bride is allergic.

Things to Do

Registry

We will be getting married at the beautiful Quiet Meadow Farm in Mapleton, Utah. The venue is approximately an hour drive from the SLC Airport, or 45 minutes from SLC. It is a picturesque 130 acres nestled under the mountains of Mapleton. The ceremony will be held outside on the lawn, weather-permitting. If it decides to snow in May, we will move into the barn and enjoy the warmth of the large fireplace. The reception will be both inside the barn and outside on the grounds of the farm. The bride is very punctual so feel free to arrive early and you can enjoy wandering through the orchard, petting the goats, and watching whatever other animals happen to be on the property that day (elk, deer, pheasants, rabbits, bald eagles, foxes!). You can see photos and get more information about the venue here:https://quietmeadowfarms.com/ There is parking on site. No alcohol is permitted and no pets are allowed.

Venue

4:30-4:45PM :: Arrive and be seated for ceremony. 5:00PM :: Ceremony begins. Sadie is very punctual so we don't anticipate a late start. 5:45PM :: The reception will begin whenever the ceremony is over, likely around 5:45pm. There will be grazing boards ready to munch on while you wait for your wood-fired pizza to cook. After you enjoy your pizza, be sure to grab a scrumptious handmade ice cream sandwich at the pink truck so you have plenty of energy to hit the dance floor! 6:45PM:: Speeches 7:00PM :: Sadie &amp; Trevor insist that dancing is mandatory, so be ready to join us on the patio! There'll be standard-type wedding dancing, but also some country swing and line dancing. If you want to brush up on your line dancing skills, check out the instruction videos in the <a href="https://www.theknot.com/us/sadie-kappes-and-trevor-millar-2026-05-16/dance-videos" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">DANCE VIDEOS</a> tab. 9:00PM :: Send off!! We'll send Sadie &amp; Trevor on their way as the new Mr. and Ms. Millar!!

Schedule

We are going to have dancing at our wedding! Participation is mandatory; so is having fun, we have specifically requested it. A few of the dances will be line dances. Below are some links to videos showing you how to do these line dances so if you feel inclined to practice you're able to join in at the wedding. If you have specific questions on moves, feel free to talk to Sadie, Avery, Leif, Kameron, or myself (Trevor) and we will help you with whatever you need. <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1lDhIqW6r2wSd10Se7pSU2XET3FUfHP8L/view?usp=drive_link" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">ANY MAN OF MINE</a> <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/18NKGsws1dDSCjcLqh9Tw3Shf4g8M2KAV/view?usp=drive_link" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">GOOD TO GO</a> <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1puG5gLclQLafufZdsgsM4i1bF0o74R35/view?usp=drive_link" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">WAGON WHEEL</a> <a href="https://drive.google.com/file/d/1o9ZxeIql_xCM02YDjvdMYAuhHpUFNNVe/view" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">AA</a>

Sadie & Trevor

Sadie & Trevor

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